I'm trying to organise as much as I can now to make it easier to get things cheaper rather than leaving it til last minute and it costing more than It needs to. But I keep double guessing everything I do or decide on, I'm worried I'll hate everything or realise it looks a mess, feel like I need a wedding planner but can't justify spending money on one. OH great but he just seems to agree or say its good idea. It's like I just can't picture it and I think part of its coz its so far away but I'm also not confident in myself to decide as I want it to be perfect but we have a small budget. Sorry for rant but think OH bored of me nattering about it lol x
CommentAuthorbrilly
Have you tried using google images for your ideas hun so you can roughly picture the things your looking for? Also try getting a planner or note book and just writing it all down you can then cut out images from magazines etc and try to build a mental picture you will soon see what works and what doesnt hope this helps xx
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CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
Yep what Brilly said; I have a planner and although we can't write much in it in terms of venue e.t.c as this isn't booked yet; it does give us an idea what we need and I'm like you; trying to get things as I go along when they are cheaper :)
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CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
Thanks hun, I've got notebook n folder n loads bits on Pinterest too, just struggling to picture it all, think I need a bullet board or something, just can't seem to picture it in my head. Just keep double guessing myself constantly :( so worried about wasting money x
CommentAuthorCharlieBe-Cool
Im the same. Bought centre pieces other day for a bargain price compared to hiring them but now wondering if I rushed into it. Pretty sure we will use them but cant help thinking it. Now I want to order favour boxes as found some l perfect ones at a good price but cant help thinking if they are stored away for the next 23 months I might end up changing my mind. Plus we have not really agreed the colours yet. We said purple but have now changed to fushia and orange - but what if we wanna change our minds again? Ahhhhhhh! And breath. Im sure your day will be fab.
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ive got a notebook that I cut pictures out and stick into book ive had it a few months now so starting to see what I do really like and also ill be able to keep it after the day. ooh what centrepieces have you bought Charlie? I need to sit down and figure out how many tables I need so I can buy my centrepieces xx
CommentAuthorAna40
Emma, why dont you get your notebook and go and sit in your favourite place where you are calm and at ease. Maybe then you will be less stressed and able to mull it over. You have loads of time left, i know you want it to be perfect (and it will be) but that doesnt mean you have to be perfect and get it right straight away so give yourself some slack. X
CommentAuthorFernP61
We wrote down exactly what we needed, budgeted a bit more then searched around x
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
i think all your ideas come together when you find your venue as you can look at it and be like "that could go there an we could do that with that" you don't have to book it but to have a place in you mind helps i found
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CommentAuthorLeanneD39
MrsC2bee I am in the same boat as you! It's all a bit overwhelming! The best thing I did was to give myself a week off! Don't look at google, don't look at wedding magazines - just get back to doing nothing for a bit! Might help take the pressure off! x
CommentAuthorFernP61
I will say steer away from bridal magazines their a rip off there's hardly any useful stuff in them also! All the stuff is ridiculously expensive like the last one I bought all the princess dresses were 3,000 like I'd pay that for one!! X
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
Fern this is an old thread and has been sunk as it is old, please stop commenting and filling the front page with old threads as other members can be confused by the comments.
It's great ur using the search function but please take note of the age of the thread before commenting as it may no longer be relevant
You have done this on a few threads now and it just causes the front page to be clogged with old threads rather than new relevant ones, please can you Stop bumping old threads as it can cause irritation to other users
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