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    • Stevie_Dee
      CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
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    I liked the Wedding dress multi question poll at the top of the page so thought I would do one. Wondering how much and what people had chosen for their favours. Hopefully this poll may be a bit of fun and may also help new brides that are new to the minefield of whats the norm for favours. xx


    Forum Poll

    Favours

    How much are you spending per head?

    Poll Results

    Total Votes:
    130
    0 - £1
    29% 
    £1 - £2
    40% 
    £2 - £3
    19% 
    Over £3
    4% 
    Not doing favours
    8% 



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    Favours 2

    What are you doing for favours?

    Poll Results

    Total Votes:
    124
    Charity favour ie pin/badge or lottery ticket
    15% 
    Edible favours ie Chocolate/sweets/cake pops/mints
    48% 
    Personalised keepsake/momento ie poem/bookmarks/wine charm
    10% 
    Other please state
    18% 
    Not doing favours
    9% 


    And just to see if theres any difference between poll 2 and poll 3


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    Favours 3

    What would you most like to receive as a favour?

    Poll Results

    Total Votes:
    124
    Charity favour ie pin/badge or lottery ticket
    15% 
    Edible favour chocolate/sweets/cake pops/mints
    39% 
    Personalised keepsake/momento ie poem/bookmark/wine charm
    30% 
    Other please state
    1% 
    Would not expect/want a favour
    16% 


    finally


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    Favours 4

    How are you presenting your favour?

    Poll Results

    Total Votes:
    121
    Simple - tied in ribbon or with tag
    14% 
    Boxed with ribbon - ie pillow/chest
    28% 
    Gift bag or netting
    35% 
    Other please state
    14% 
    Not doing favours
    9% 


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    • MorgsysGirl(kempy)
      CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
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    were having a candy buffett thats favours may put a box on each table saying fill me and take me home or put a poem on there x

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    • linzmum
      CommentAuthorlinzmum
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    we are also having a candy buffet with the paper bags you get at the pick 'n' mix but I am also thinking of putting some sort of lollipop sticks with jokes or trivia questions on each persons seat so there's something for people to do whilst sat round the table. I saw some recently online but they were wither solf out or had a christmas design. I am now thinking I might make my own anyway :) then I can have them match my theme

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    • Mrsowen2b
      CommentAuthorMrsowen2b
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    Weve got 2 sort of favours like kempy we are having a sweet buffet and then we are giving the females Life survival kits and the males lottery tickets.
    For the children we are going to do little fun packs.

    xx
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    am havin a sweet buffet too, but i dont class that as my favour to my guests, i have paid £1.50 for world cancer charity pins, wrapped them in tissue paper and put them in little organza bags x

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    • Mel D
      CommentAuthorMel D
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    We had wooden coasters made which doubled up as the places names. They were free as my sister got them for us as a wedding present

    favors/place names
    favors/place names


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    • x~Hails~x
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    I was going to have cupcakes for all but worked out too much so we changed to cake pops.
    We are not having an evening buffet just bacon rolls and mini chip comes so we decided to have a sweet buffet as part of the dessert. I have found a lovely lady that does a mix of sweets and desserts which will include cake pops so not having them as favours now lol.

    Instead the children will have gift bags for throughout the day including a camera for a photo hunt (see my thread) and a mini bucket with sweets in.
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    The ladies will have little co mpact silver heart mirrors which will be in black square boxes with ribbon and roses on
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    and the men will have silver mini hip flask key rings which will be in black pillow boxes decorated the same way.
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    oh and we are also have wooden roses that will have the guests name attached on each napkin, so i guess they can keep these as well so thats another little favour hehehe

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    • WeeMintyMonkie
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    Im having charity pin badges and making my own chocolates
    x x x
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    • Stevie_Dee
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    I think it's good to see that quite a few wouldn't expect a favour. Its nice to know as a bride that if your budget doesn't stretch to favours, its not an essential. xx

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    ............saying that I put anything edible! ahem xx

    its the diet talking.

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    • Jill
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    again it looks like I'm the norm lol

    I'd voted before I noticed 'wouldnt expect a favour', so I'd change that vote, I dont think I've ever missed a favour, just been impressed with peoples ideas for them

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    • linzmum
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    I am also toying with the idea of recording a video message thanking the guests for joining us on the day etc. Then we will burn the message onto DVD discs and label them with the guests name. this way we have place names and a weding favour which can be kept a lot longer than anything edible :)
    not sure if we will do this yet but I love the idea.

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    • CommentAuthortweedwedding
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    We're having favour buckets with 2 bars of chocolate and a lottery ticket in ours, so it'll be a little over £2 a head I think :-)
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    • LegoWife
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    We weren't going to do favours but I'm liking the sweet buffet idea now!

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    • Enny
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    not decided on the final favours yet but will be deciding sooner or later...
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    • Annette
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    We are doing personalized fake tattoos! They'll be of a swallow or rose with a banner, with Annette and Carl and our date on it. We'll set up a table with them and some water and sponges so people can put them on there and then. Might get some fun pictures of people showing off their "tattoos" :) xx

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    • linzi
      CommentAuthorlinzi
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    I recently decided against making my own sweetie boxes as favours as think I will have enough to do the week before the wedding. So i am getting Dream Rings from the local Harry Gow's bakery! haha
    and the girls are getting a mini Prada perfume and the blokes a mini Juicy couture aftershave too.

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    • starlighthunny
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    This is what we are having ( well the box) and we are filling it with royal blue and silver sweets of some kind( our colours)

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    • janetx71
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    we are having little momento cards on the table and personalised love hearts in the evening we are giving out the usual almonds in bags lol xxx
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    • kimmy
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    We have changed our minds ..again, firstly we bought mini love hearts with personalised labels on them to place in lilac organza bags, but now we have decided on hand made soap in heart shapes individually wrapped for the ladies and Beer Bands for the boys, these are coloured wrist bands with funny names on ie control freak, the men place them over their glass or can or beer bottle to identify their drinks, they are cheap and funny, we are putting the sweets into a big dish next to the casino tables.:D
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    • jo Santa
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    I have a local shop that sell 3 bath mallows or cakes (the ones that look like decorated buns or sweets), in lovely bespoke boxes for £5, so I'm giving the men men's ones and the women the usual pretty ones.

    Jo Santa


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    • Beckyf
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    Were having the same evening food as you hails, bacon buttes and chips (much to my mums disgust) and are making our own cake pops wrapped in celo for favours. We've also thinking of bulk buying some scarfs & having them embroidered with initials for the ladies (luckily we know someone who will do the names) Also doing sweet trees for the tables so were thinking of a sweet buffet but in think maybe we might have enough goin on without it!!

    MelN I love your coasters, what a good idea x
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    • MrsSaraParry!
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    we're having miniature pots of homemade jam and cancer research pin badges
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    • kimmy
      CommentAuthorkimmy
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    That's a lovely idea Sara!!
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    • mrsMcF2b
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    We got our favor boxes free with our room decor company . They are the little tuxedo boxes for men and brides dress for the ladies. we are just buying mini packs of love hearts to put in them. x we are struggling enough with our budget to feed everyone so cheap and cheerful all the way for us when it comes to favors lol. Bridal party will get proper presents :) x
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    • Officially Mrs M
      CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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    Ladies are having hand made hookmarks in our colours and a mini cadbury dairy milk

    Men are having polystyrene plane gliders and a mini cadbury dairy milk :-)

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    • loustew2012
      CommentAuthorloustew2012
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    were making "friendship boxes" for everyone at night except the men they are getting torch keyrings.
    for the day guests they are also getting wee bags with chocolate, mints and a piece of tablet which will be handed out during the meal by the staff so the kids (esp my cousins lot) dont pinch them off the tables and eat the lot!!!!

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    • Rachel168
      CommentAuthorRachel168
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    for our favours, we're getting mini terracotta pots and spray painting them to match colour scheme, then filling them with tissue and home made tablet, wrapping them up with clear cellophane and tying them with a coloured ribbon with each persons name on a wee luggage style tag. Just something different and plus, they can use the pot again! We considered putting seeds in them, like planting a seed and then letting them watch it grow as our own love grew following the wedding, but couldn't decide on a plant seed!

    xx
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    • bomboniere
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    Some really great ideas on here. There are so many favour options depending on how much you want to spend and your theme, it's also great fun to get a few of you together to make your own.

    Good luck.

    Maria
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    • sar
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    Having individual painted hearts as name places and sweets to keep us going!
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    • Stevie_Dee
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    bump

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    • biochrissy
      CommentAuthorbiochrissy
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    As we are having a sweet buffet we've opted for for something different, we are giving cosmos seeds in a butterfly shaped favour box/bag tied with slim lace trim to match the rest of our wedding xxx

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    • Ragatopp
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    We're having christmas crackers with a little clay penguin in it (partner insisted we had to get penguins in the wedding somehow lol); I'll be decorating the crackers to match the invites and am making name tags to stick on them so they can double up as place names :) I did also think about making small ribbon roses in our colour scheme for each of the guests, but I'm not sure if I'll go ahead with it yet.
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    • kisseymad1
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    nom nom choccies x
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    • CommentAuthorMrs.K.Ward
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    I'm getting lottery tickets for all our day guests that will be popped inside a personalised envelope. I'm a graphic designer by trade so am sure I can knock up something nice! Lol x
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    • CommentAuthorMrs.K.Ward
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    Ooo actually I just remembered that I really wanted to give packets of poppy seeds in special envelopes as favours. Wanted to do this as I was really close to my nan who died several years ago but adored my H2B and her birthday was Nov 11th aka Poppy Day. Miss her so much, wish she was still around to see my special day....dammit made myself cry now =( x
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    • Oct12bride86
      CommentAuthorOct12bride86
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    I have chosen copper plated bottle opener and wine stopper with a leaf design for my favours. They cost between £2-£3 and come in a lovely presentation box with a golden bow and a tag that says thank you. If you want to have a look there somewhere in my album.

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    • charlottelee
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    Ours worked out at about 50p each i think. We are doing plantable seeded paper butterflies on the front they have a pic of a bride and groom and say plant me. I love flowers so something that is very much about me. They are in net purple bags with butterflys on them. We are also having a candy buffet which is 1.50 per adult. Children are having little sweet buckets still not decided on which price yet

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    • MagicFairies
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    we're having sweets but also giving everyone a fridge magnet with a little thank you message on it. wrapping them together in organza with a ribbon and name tag so that they double up as place names :) xx
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    • pennieb-MrsRiley
      CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
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    I'm doing a candy buffet as favours, with boxes in our colours for guests to fill, and for the children I've found some lovely little boxed toy sets in the pound shop so they will get to have things like a shop set, or dragon set, all with little figures and accessories :)

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    • Mrs D-2b
      CommentAuthorMrs D-2b
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    We're having handmade personalised favour boxes with a pack of personalised love hearts in them xx

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    • Abbey
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    I'm making origami jewellery for my guests, presented in hand made heart bags. 7 sets done so far
    Only another 43 to go!!

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  43.  
    • chubblywubbly
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    were having a buffet table and have got tradional personalised sweet bags for our guests! x
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    • Kimberlee1
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    Were having Chocolate footballs for the lads and personalised Love Hearts for the ladies.

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    bumped for peppermint

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    • Oct12bride86
      CommentAuthorOct12bride86
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    Im gonna try get out og having them becuase they are an expense I could do without. There not essential so but my initial idea was leaf bottle opener and wine stopper. Then I thought of little aftershaves and perfumes. I was give the idea of pens with our name and date of wedding on which I thought was a nice idea but..... I am over budget and need to cut back...

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    • CommentAuthorSweetchilli
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    We are having little ivory colour candles in purple organza bags tied with tartan for the ladies and homemade tablet in boxes with little tartan bows for the men and sweet bags for the children.
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    • honeypie
      CommentAuthorhoneypie
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    Thanks Stevie_Dee, however I'm still none the wiser - so many things to choose from!!

    I don't want favours to cut massively into our budget but H2B's sis provided mini bottles of champagne for everyone at hers...I know it's not a competition but I wanted to do something a bit quirky. We had originally thought of personalised love hearts, then it became personalised m&ms - now we're planning on personalised shot glasses (filled with sweets for the kids, and to be filled with vodka later on for the adults!)
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    • Kaili&James
      CommentAuthorKaili&James
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    My favours will double up as place cards as it is simply a shortbread biscuit with a name piped on in white icing with a teal ribbon tied through a hole in one end. simple and homemade :P
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    • suzky123
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    we spent little over £2 at the no for some round white candles that smell of roses and are made up of individual roses. They look grog and are wrapped in tulle with a little ribbon and we will add our date and names etc. More for girls I know but never mind... the girls wont complain when they get two. We were doing alcohol minatures until we found out our venue was going to charge £2 corkage for each one even though they dont have to do anything with them grrrr

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    weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
    total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
 

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