my sister is getting married in 2011, and although at first i didnt like that shes getting married first ( im older and have been planning longer) we have been wedding planning together dress shopping ect and its been fun! however her h2b thinks im taking over their wedding! my sister doesnt, and shes the kind who would def tell me! i havent done anything for them, he thinks the run up to my sisters wedding should b all about her, but the thing is even if i wasnt getting married , i would still b helping cus im her bridesmaid and shes mine, me and my sister dont have any issues about sharing the attention on the run up to both our weddings, she knows her wedding will be all about her, and vice versa!
I dont know wether to ignore him or completly back off, i dont want my sister thinking iv got a strop on or summat tho!
Ideas???
CommentAuthorOneDayMrsSmith
Tell him to mind his beeswax, it's a rite of passage between sisters and he should know better than to stick his nose in! Ha sorry :D x
CommentAuthorAngelaeris
I would wait til my sister told me to back off. if shes the type who would let you know if you were getting too involved then she would have told you right! Also tell her h2b that shes your sister and your so happy about the fact shes getting married that of course you want to help in any way and it has nothing to do with you also getting married. He'll get used to it!
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CommentAuthorPrincessClaire*
Ignore the goon, me and my sister are constantly texting each other about my wedding and my h2b just laughs at our excitement!! It's all part of being a sister x
CommentAuthorclareabella
well id tell him whats wrong u jelous cos u cant try the dresses on may be he wants 2 dress up lmao
I agree Clare I think he's jealous - he's her h2b not yours leave it for her to sort out xxx
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CommentAuthorEmsy5000
have you talked to her about his attitude she might be able to make him see sense otherwise you will just have to ignore him and carry on.
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CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Tell him to shut up. Until your sister says you are doing it then carry on doing what you are doing
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
if you and ur sister would tell each other if you felt like that i'd tell him to give his head a little wobble (in a nice way) and do what ur doing now! x
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CommentAuthorprincess_alicia
ask her outright do you think im taking over? she will tell you the truth. y dont you have a word with him and ask him what he feels ur taking over on, and then talk it over from there. it is a sisters right at the end of the day tho. when my sister gets married i want to help her every step of the way x x
CommentAuthorlemlau
if your sis had the problem it would be a different story but as its bil2b ignore him!!! its that sisterly bond and i love the fact that my sisters share it with me!
as you say if your sis felt that wa she'd tell you!! ignore him and enjoy the preperations!
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CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
You know your sister better than her h2b tbh, and so you know if she thought you were taking over she would tell you, but as you are sisters AND each others bridesmaids then you are going to get involved and help her, that is your job, lol. I agree that he is jealous, but also could he want to get involved more himself, i mean does he want to plan the wedding with your sister because it is romantic? Not many men would want to get involved, but i was just wondering. My h2b is more than happy with my best mate who is my MOH to help me plan but i include him too, so it is all good. xx
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CommentAuthorTamster
talk it out with both of them and accept what they say, he might want to be the one she turns to when planning and that should be the case as it is there big day not just hers but on the flip side you are each others bridesmaids so you are involved whether he likes it or not you love your sister very much from the sound of it and maybe this has caused friction in their relationship which you wouldn't want for her so defo clear the air find out what is really bothering him and then everyone knows where they stand and the fact that you are being so adult about it will only strengthen the bond between you and your sis you might think she would tell you but honestly how do you tell your flesh and blood to back off its a hard one good luck x
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CommentAuthormelhill
well i asked him what was anoying him, and he replied that the run up to her wedding should be about her and only her! which makes me feel as tho I dont matter after all its the run up to my wedding too, he says i am making my sister happy, and helping her loads, but i dont help him cus he doesnt want to constantly take weddings!!? they only have 10 months, to plan from start to finish so shes stressing out especially about her dress(now its ordered shes ok) she thinks hes bein an arse lol
CommentAuthorangeleyes
sounds like he actually doesnt actually have a problem with you hun, he said you are making her happy...maybe he is annoyed about something else but he's venting, silly boys. And anyway, it should be about her...and YOU! all he has to do is turn up, until that day comes tells him to stop being a fool and shh. xxx
CommentAuthorGriff
Talk to your sister ask if she's ok with you helping her. Only way to find out how she feels xx
