Ok so the problem is this; I do not want my 'auntie' (I don't count her as family...) to be at my wedding with her evil son but she is my mum's sister so I sort of feel that I have to invite her for my mum's sake as she is family...It would be unfair to leave her out - my mum's words though I'm not sure I want her there and I definately do not want her son there but he would be if she was...
I only invited them to our engagement party on my mum's request..
Really don't know what to do :(
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CommentAuthorMrsGothBride
don't invite them! your day, your wedding, your time to be selfish.
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CommentAuthorsarah
don't invite the son. Or is he likely to come even if he's not named on the invite?
CommentAuthorAna40
I wouldn't invite them. It's your wedding day and if you have just cause then I'm sure people will understand. X
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
Yeah he would come even if he wasn't officially invited; my 'auntie' would just bring him...I don't trust him and he has no respect for woman but that is another rant all together. We were thinking of having out aquatic wedding abroad; if we do then she and him may not be able to come anyway so might not be a problem but we'll see :S Thanks for your advice guys though.
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Got together on12th May 2011, proposed on the 12th May 2013
When you get knocked down; smile and pick yourself up again!
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I wouldn't invite her! Is your day to choose who you want there xx
CommentAuthordisneylove
Its ur day hun, if u don't want them there don't invite them x
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CommentAuthorKristyM72
This is your special day - not your mum's, not your family's or friend's, yours. Do what you want. I think that sometimes people forget that a wedding is a very personal thing - why should you share it with anyone you wouldn't be happy sharing a bottle of wine with? Don't invite her if you don't want her there. I'm sure your mum will understand x
CommentAuthorVelcro
just don't invite her hun, its 22 months away so I wouldn't even bring it up again to save the hassle. by the time it comes to handing out your invites, don't even mention it and just send them to who YOU want to. its far too soon to be worrying about specific guests when you only need rough numbers at this stage
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Your day hun, don't invite them, im not iviting some of my cousins as they are stirring hypocritical cows.
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CommentAuthorsarah
good advice velcro :)
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
Thanks guys and yeah that it just what we were trying to work out Velcro; I guess we don't need to know who to invite yet as it feels like such a long way a way. Probably won't invite her or him but 22 months is a long time so maybe things may have changed by then.
Met in 2009
Got together on12th May 2011, proposed on the 12th May 2013
When you get knocked down; smile and pick yourself up again!
Fight for what you believe in!
CommentAuthorsarah
fingers crossed that things improve or that he moves thousands of miles away
