i've fallen out with one of my BMs, basically she never replies to my texts, etc, but on sun she text me last min to meet up, so i did but told her i couldnt be all day as i might be going out with h2b, so we went to a wedding fayre (which iv chosen as my venue) and i spent a couple of hours with her, then i had a fone call from h2b saying he was taking me shopping (with the in-laws!), so i told her i had to go, and that we'd arrange to meet up again soon, so she was all sh**ty with me and hasnt talked to me since! she blames my h2b and thinks i shouldv said no, but we hardly see each other anyway as he only has sundays off, and i did warn her, im meant to be her bridesmaid in nov as well, and it has upset me cos im quite a sensitive person anyway, but i dont really know what to do.
just wanted to rant! xx
CommentAuthorJoolsy
She shouldn't be acting like that you already pre warned her that you would be leaving to meet up with your H2B sounds like she wants you all to herself which is a bit freaky you have to spend time with your other half aswell!! Let her be in a strop she will soon get over it and she will need you before you need her!! xx
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CommentAuthorjellytot
if she knew from the beginning u couldnt spend all day with her then whats her problem? sounds like abit of an ar$e to me. dont txt her or anything, she might realise shes been a d!ck and contact you. x
CommentAuthorClaire Sky
people are so selfish! a good friend would get over it so hold tight and i know it's easier said than done but don't worry about it! xxxx
CommentAuthorrainbow21
i no, she had her son nd h2b there as well, so i wasnt exactly leaving her on her own! x
ur better off with out her if shes going to be mean, ask someone else who will be there to support u xx
CommentAuthorFaye
She needs to grow up, my best friend MOH is great, we don't have to see eachother often to ensure our friendship is great!!! Xx
CommentAuthorKerrylou
She sounds a bit pathetic and stroppy to me. She knew you couldn't stay all day and she had her h2b & son there so this shouldn't have been an issue. To blame your h2b sounds very jealous and childish! Just leave her to it and she'll come round in her own time, and if she doesn't then she can't have been such a great friend after all *hugs*
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CommentAuthorfran
hun just leave her to come out of obviously childish strop, u pre warned her about ur plans n as u said she wasn't left on her own, i have a friend like that n thats exactly y she isn't my bm, n faye my moh n me r like that to i think we see each other once or twice a month for coffee shoppin n weddin plans n that suits both of us
she will either come round in her own time n if she doesn't then she isn't bein a true friend ((((big hugs))))
CommentAuthorDiana89
She never bothers with you and then when she suddenly wants to at last minute kicks off that you can't spend as much time with her as she'd like? Pathetic. I know it is a pain in the neck to have fallen out with a bridesmaid, I have fallen out with one of mine, my best friend for nearly ten years but it has gotten to the point where I couldn't care less tbh I hate people who only ever take and never give anything back and that is exactly what she is so I am having a bridesman instead :) You've got plenty of time before the weddings to sort things out and I hope you do but she needs to learn to be less selfish. Good luck hun x
