I knew hubbys family were being quiet at our wedding and did mention it to him (hubby) but he said i was wrong and they were fine, they didnt bring button holes, confetti, or even a card & his mum didnt smile once.

Just been told that mil had told fil on the evening before our wedding that she was seeing someone else his friend infact and wanted a divorce..she then admitted to loads of affairs !! omg the poor man is beside himself so now iv got the pleasure of his company for a week or so! some honeymoon this will be...selfish i know but this is our time and im going to get nothing but tears and boozed up men.
Fuming! x

i agree that is very selfish, she could of waited. your poor fil, hope he is ok x

Oh my gosh how awful, poor man. I hope your honeymoon isnt spoilt hon, so selfish to drop a bomb shell like that

I know, i knew she didnt want to come but to do that knowing that he would still go and smile like nothing happened, and he did he was only one smiling in the pictures when poor soul was heartbroken, they been married 34 years. x

That's rubbish, so selfish of her! Try and enjoy your time as much as you can. Maybe ask FiL for one day/evening for just you and H2B - I'm sure he'll understand - I always find just being honest and asking for what you'd like in a nice, caring, compassionate way tends to work. Good luck hun Hx

What a total selfish piece of crap! What she has done to her husband is disgraceful, but to do that the night before her son's wedding?????? She has tarnished one of the best days of your lives. I am totally flabbergasted that she chose to drop the bombshell then, why couldn't she just have kept her mouth shut for a few more days? I'm sorry I'm going off on one, but I really can't understand some people.

How selfish of her! That's such a sad story hun, hope it all works out ok! x

how horrible what a selfish cow. so sorry about the news

awww hun thats awful!!!! im sure you can both help him through this and you will get some US time soon xxx poor guy xx big hugs!! xx

Wow! Poor bloke!! I agree with xjox, what a guy for holding it together for your wedding.

What your MiL has done is, IMO, unforgiveable. I can understand your wanting time alone but at the same time I'm sure your poor FiL will appreciate the support massively as this woman has just sent his whole world crashing down around his ears. I agree with what's been said here about maybe taking another honeymoon at a later date just for the two of you though.
Thinking of you all ((hugs)).

Yeah shes a evil one, she rubbed it in his face aswell, hes just informed us he staying another week as he cant face going home,feel so bad for him. x

That's so selfish of her! Poor you and I feel even sorrier for your fil - not the way he should remember his son's wedding. xx

she couldnt have revealed it months before, she had to do it on a day that could have ruined your wedding day and did in fact for fil and now affects honeymoon. Could she not have waited until after you got back. So selfish. Sorry x Hope he feels better about it soon and finds someone who loves him x

What a moo, i'd like to say other words to describe but didn't want to be told off for swearing. With any luck her lover will do the dirty on her and she'll know how it feels. Poor FIL he must be devastated after being together so long and the way she told him. Some people can be so cruel and what a spiteful b#### for doing it before the wedding too. Makes me want to slap her and i don't even know her. It must be hard for you 2 too trying to comfort him when it should be your honeymoon time, but maybe you can make plans to do something special when things have calmed down a bit xx

Sorry to go on iv got no one else to vent too, Hes had a mini stroke and now has to stay with us as his health too bad to go home and see & live with her.
I will admitt its caused a row :(