I'm stuck and have read a post simliar to this but cant remember the outcome- do u send save the dates to evening only guests? Or is it just the day guests that recieve them, i need to send ours out soon xx
CommentAuthorloustew2012
i think its mainly day guests but i know some people have sent them to both day and night. xx
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CommentAuthormrs m
I sent mine to both, That way if anyone from evening needs to take time off work or arrange childcare they have plenty of time.
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CommentAuthorPapillonEmma
My future in laws once received a save the date card and booked time of work and then found out months later that they were only invited to the evening do. They were rather confused and disappointed. Perhaps if you make it obvious on the save the date that it is for the evening only that would be ok. But my in laws assumed they were being invited to the whole day.
CommentAuthortoritots
I sent Save the Dates to both, in the day guests Save the dates, its says formal invitation to follow and in the evening save the dates its says formal evening invitation to follow. xx
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I'm going to send save the dates to everyone who I know for certain I want there. Most people are going to have to travel and book accomodation so for my wedding, I think that's the most sensible.
CommentAuthorKaya
Just day guests or evening guests may expect a full day invite x
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CommentAuthorJanie
I hadnt even considered sending them to evening guests! Thought just hadnt crossed my mind, but we're probably just going to email and text everyone, as the ones we got have the first venue on we wanted, but due to budget problems we had to change. We now feel it isnt aposh bash so we can cut out save the dates, most people know when it will be anyway
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CommentAuthorbarbie86
We'll probably do both, but make it clear to the evening guests that it will just be an evening invite, both on the invite, and also by speaking to them.
Although our venue isn't too far away, most people will need to make travel arrangements, or else book accommodation as it isn't exactly down the road. Also, some of our evening guests are work colleagues of mine, some who work late night Saturday, or Sunday, so they may want to book time off/swap shifts if they're coming.
CommentAuthorElliekitty
I have only sent them to my Day guest's as its alot more important for them to be able to come.
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CommentAuthorJillybean
Me n h2b we're discussing this last night and decided we were going too, pretty much for the same reason as others - travel, accom & childcare arrangements!
I think its a good idea (plus if no one can make it off your day list then people from the evening can always be asked and they will already no to save the date!)
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CommentAuthorleah
we are just sending save the dates to the day guests like jillybbean said if any day guests cant come you can always bump them to day guests!! xx
