Wedding Forum - Engagement ring too big...

H2b got my engagement ring in a size N 4 yrs ago it should of been an M so no big deal but slack ,not too much plus i hardly wore it as its got 9 diamonds in (its shoulder set with solitaire nothing huge ( think photo in my album) anyway since having my 2 kids back to back lol (2012 and 2013) everything has shrunk.. im no longer a 32 bra im a 30 im no longer 5 shoe (i wasn't dead on anyway was more 4.5) im now a 4 or less.
My hips grew though ha
My fingers shrank and now need an L ring which my wedding ring in. So my engagement ring is pretty slack now n im starting to wear it daily!

I'm gutted. The jewelers we bought it from no longer sell it but on their system it says straight away DO NOT re-size, apparently the shoulder diamonds would pop out etc :-/

H2b is saying he will get me a new 1 but i dont want a new one plus i did look and saw nothing i liked better than mine! My ring was £80 my wedding ring £125 there's no way im spending more than my wedding ring on engagement ring when we r getting married in July.

Maybe a bigger jewelers or somewhere can successfully downsize it? I was told a few weeks ago it be fine but when checking system to make sure it turns out they were wrong

Gutted absolutely gutted :-(

I have no idea what that wud cost :-/ im goung to get details from different jewlers in a few weeks
Ive also heard they can eitger build ring up or put blobs of gold etc inside which isnt a bad idea as if it ever becomes tught they can be removed

Adding gold inside the band to make it smaller is a good idea, thicker band but at least it will fit.

I was going to suggest what Leasa said.

That's a good idea, mi didn't know about them.

Oh thanks yea i imagine it wud be a little strange at first but wud get used to it.. failing that weve said we wud buy another band for the other side just so it didnt fall off not so bothered about the spinning its just slipping all over my finger atm!
Thx for replies ill look into all of this :-) xx

Oh ill. Look.. b3averbr00ks do the sizing beads she called them. Id rather build the ring up i think though but i`ll speak with different ones see what can be done :-) samuels managed to size my mams ring and its similar to mine so going to try them also x

This is my ring which has shoulder stones. We bought a size N as it was the only one they had in the shop and I was desperate to take it away that day and show it off to everyone. I had it re-sized a week later to a size l 1/2 and have been advised that i can still take it down a further 1/2 size if needed with no problem to the design of the ring. only after the 2 sizes can there start to be problems. Hope that helps a little xx

Mrsthomson where did u go for resizing? X

Im not from birmingham and i wouldnt like to post it off but thankyou very much i am visiting one on friday tho i found can make rings and he said it sounds hopeful that he can do something but he must see it of course. £50 resize and replate

I had a moment of devistation as u do haha but fingers crossed this is the place to go :-) he done desin your own and can take a ring and completely remake it to something different so im hopefull :-)