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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    When we got engaged H2B bought me a ring and I wanted to get him a present too and he has loads of jewellry already so instead I got him 2 Oscar fish. Lovely little fish, about the length of my little finger. Since March they have grown. Lots. Now about the size of my hand. Lovely characters, same family as pirhanas so very interesting. However they have systematically eaten most of the other fish in our tank, started with the small ones and worked their way up to the medium sized ones. All that is left is the catfish which are about the same size. Oh dear. I had good intentions! The engagement present that has definitely gone a bit wrong, should have bought him some socks instead!

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    you werent to know and its the thought that counts x

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    • Mrs Steer
      CommentAuthorMrs Steer
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    ahhh did the shop you brought them from not warn you?!! They are gorgeous fish just like you say come from the same family as pirhanas so will naturally eat anything smaller than them. He still has his engagement present you just dont have the rest of the fish! :( xx

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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    He thinks its quite amusing which is a relief!

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Bless. You could always have two tanks. One for the fish eaters and one for the veggies.




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    • Kerrylou
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    I'd separate the fish - if the Oscars grow any more then they WILL devour the catfish too. With them being from the Piranha family I wouldn't put them with any other fish (if you decide to replace the ones that got eaten) it's asking for trouble :(

    Your heart was in the right place though :)
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    • Jane
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    Nice idea to separate them but not really workable, the tank we have is HUGE, fills up one wall of the dining room! So might have to resign myself to the fact that poor catfish might be midnight snacks at some point. Shant go to the bother of replacing the ones that have been eaten, would be pointless!

    The Oscars are very clever fish, they watch you as you walk around and respond to you, quite creepy. Apparently you can teach them to do tricks too. And they definitely prefer my partner to me, they get excited like little puppies when he comes home from work, very odd! And they dont like one of my daughters, they swim backwards away from her until they bump against the back of the tank.

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    • Mrs Brakes
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    Oscar's, like carp, will grow to fit their environment. Big tank, big fish!

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    • Jenna
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    My h2b boiled our fish, we had some tropical ones, names i cant remeber, every time we got new ones we made sure they would mix with the others, but once my h2b changed some of the water, and dont know why or what happend but must have turned the heater up coz he boiled them all. I was gutted, we havent had any since only some gold fish but they get to dirty, lol.... in the end he put them in his dads pond, he has loads in there!.
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    • Jane
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    Mmmmm, fish soup then Jenna!

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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    I had never heard of them but just looked them up on google they are very funny looking fish. martys bro has fish but gold fish and kio and stuff like that. but they are really odd looking fish they look so grumpy

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    • steffi
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    I am so sorry jane, but this made me chuckle.. It is sooo something i would do, with the good intentions.. But hey you can always tell kids visitors etc if they misbehave your gonna feed them to the fishes ;o)
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    LOL steffi that does not work i tried that with my sis when she came to mine and misbehaved she just looked at the fish and laughed and said yeah right i will cook them if they even start cheeky moo

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    • Jane
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    Now theres an idea! Think these two will chasing after the kids soon, bigger prey! They can already lift the lid of the tank! Have to keep it weighted down!

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    • MrsEminson2B
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    i'd of thought the place you brought the fish off would of warned you about the fact they would eat other fish smaller than them and they grow to the size of their environment. I used to keep all sorts of tropical fish and breed them if the place you brought them from didnt warn you they werent doing their job properly xx

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    • Jane
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    They did mention that when they grew up they would be predators.... but we reckoned our other smaller fish would have died by then anyway due to their lifespan. They just grew up a bit too quick!

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    • Mrs Hinch2B
      CommentAuthorMrs Hinch2B
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    eeeeekkkkkkkkk lol

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    • Griff
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    lol I would probably do something like that!! Best intentions here are some lovely little fish for you... what it ate the guppy?!?!?! :D
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    • Jane
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    LOL - absolutely! And the minnows, the shrimps, the barbs.......

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    • Kimi
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    I love lion/scorpion fish - but i believe they live in tropical salt water and they are very very expensive.

    Some how I think I'll stick with the 4 legged animals :)

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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    Yep, salty water, I cant have those, beautiful fish though. I have 4 legged critters too - 2 cats who think the fish tank is cat tv!

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    • Kimi
      CommentAuthorKimi
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    well currently have two dogs which right now i regret as they are stinking me out with their rank farts.

    anyone got any spare corks????

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    • Jane
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    oooohhhh, nice! What are you feeding them? x

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    • Kimi
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    dry dog food - its just today for some reason they are being stinky :-s

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    • Jane
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    Charcoal biscuits... arent they supposed to be good for that particular problem?

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    • Emsy5000
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    lol sorry but you story made me laugh. sounds like the sorta thing i would do. Shame the pet shop did not warn you!!

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    • Jane
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    I think they did mention something but I was intent on getting them as I knew they were H2Bs favourite fish! So I suppose I thought I would just tell them not to eat the other fish and they would listen.

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    • NHR115
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    I love oscars so good choice, and what a very thoughtful present hun. You weren't to know what was going to happen. You'll just have to get more oscars. lol. xxx




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    • Jane
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    Oh no! 2 is more than enough thank you VERY much! They are hovering at the front of the tank watching me as I type this... planning on how to drag me into the tank and eat me I reckon...

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    • NHR115
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    I can't get the Jaws music out of my head right now. lol.They must sense you're talking about them. xxx




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    • Jane
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    They can lip read.

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    • NHR115
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    OMG!! The Jaws music is getting louder. You'll have to sleep with one eye open from now on. lol. xxx




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    • Jane
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    Scared now.

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    • NHR115
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    Aww hun :( Just put the cats on fish guard tonight and they can eat them if they try and jump out of the tank. xxx




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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    Think they are scared too - they usually sleep next to me on the bed! Or one sharing my pillow and one behind my knees. Theres just about room for H2B! But its his fault - he encourages them!

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    • Rags
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    lol what a gift, I actually havn't got mine anything, but you could guarentee that I'd do something simelar. Bless,

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    • SuffolkSteph
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    What are their names..... ???? If it's fluffy and squiggly I'll laugh so hard.... X
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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    Nope - he called them Penny and Punch. After Pennywise the clown in Stephen Kings IT, and Punch is short for Punchenello, some other sort of scary clown. He is odd my H2B....

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    • NHR115
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    OMG that makes them even scarier :( Evil H2B for giving them evil names. lol. xxx




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    • Possum
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    On the bright side, it could have been worse - the other fish could have eaten your present to him then there wouldn't be one left :)
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    • Griff
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    BEWARE THE EVIL OSCAR FISH OF DOOM!!! Next time just get him some cute clownfish or angel fish xxx
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    • debs x
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    They sound like killer fish lol At least you dont need to feed them thery are obviously having a feeding frenzy eating in x
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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    Yep, as far as they are concerned they dont live in a fish tank, its a sushi bar.

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    • Griff
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    lmfao i love this post can we have a vote on funniest post of the week? I think this one would win!! xxx
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
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    love it laughing so hard h2b thinks i am going mad(rocking backwards and forwards pointing at screen)

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    • Mrs Hacker to-be!
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    ooops! oh dear x x x
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    • Jane
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    Hope no one laughing so much that they've let out a little wee. That would be disgraceful :(

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    • Jane
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    OK... update time. 2 big fish have now become 1 big fish. Other one died as it got beaten up and bullied by other big fish. Other big fish looks very smug now. Almost has the whole tank to him/herself. I hope its satisfied.

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    • angelan1986
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    i threatened to flush the last 4 fish h2b bought, they killed almost all fish smaller than themselves including my neons, i wasnt happy at all :( thankfully they have stopped now so no more deaths in a while but they still try to get the others. you best hope this 1 lasts awhile or h2b might expect another gift- and for you to replace the other fish lol xx

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    • candy
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    lmao jane u prob should start worrying now n pray to god the cats dnt fancy a snack else the fish will be trying the korean diet lol
 

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