I don't even know what to say. I'm completely appalled!!

My h2b couldnt say anything at the time cause he wasn't there when she kicked off, and wasn't there either when his mum followed me upstairs in the house to have another go at me. As soon as he did know what was happening he did say something.

Neither of us thought to mention anything to his sister, cause she wasn't there, she wasn't part of the having a go at me so we kept stumpt.

She replied to our message saying that she mistakenly thought she was campin another weekend, and only realised a couple of weeks before that it was the same weekend. Shes not told her mum that we booked it on the same weekend as her camping as even she didnt realise we had. So its his mum jumping to the complete wrong conclusion.

To be honest its all just knackering me!

Hubbys dad wasn't there (his mums husband h2b step dad) step dad was there for beginning but had to leave early. Hes appauled at his wife, he's not really the outgoing type so hasnt disclosed much of whats been said other than he didnt agree with it but hes ok with us.

Well we've not invited or uninvited anyone yet, only got rough ideas of numbers so not thinking that far ahead.

I just really want her to appologise for the things she said. They were hurtful and until she does i really cant consider her to be my mate anymore as friends just dont say those kinda things x

well I hope the sister now tells her mum to grow up. Good luck and keep us posted.I think your hubby to be also ought to have a quiet word with her but on his terms, not his mum and make it clear what the score is and that this behavior will not be tolerated.

I personally would just wait for a grovelling apology. She sounds absolutely ridiculous

Wow that's horrible! I have problems with my mil2b too but she was a crazy ***** from the start, I can't imagine what I'd do if it was out of the blue like that?! Must have knocked you for six!
Good on your h2b for sticking by you, mines good like that too but there are plenty out there that aren't so let him know you appreciate it.

OMG I have only just seen this thread!!

I'm absolutely appalled! What is it with mil's accusing dil's of "bullying" or "leaving out"Mor otherwise conspiring against their daughters??

If I were you and my mil had tried to hit me she had better kill me because I'd have put her teeth down her gullet.

Ugh inlaws make me SO angry, by the time I got to the end of your post I was foaming at the mouth

Tell your inlaws to f off. Uninvited them from the wedding and don't have anything else to do with them. Your h2b has already made the choice of which woman is the most important in his life

This sounds like something my Mum would do. I have nothing 2 do with her as she was so disrespectful 2 me and my oh (she once compared my oh to Mossolini as my oh is Italian??!!!) She often shouts out 'sl*t' and 'wan*er' as we drive/walk past her. The only advice I can give u from my experience is 2 rise above it and ignore her. She will either come 2 u in her own time or not at all. I hope it all works out :)

Glad its sorted chick, families eh?! If only you could pick them haha !! xx

Dearie me, what a nightmare!

Well, if you look on the bright side, at least it has illustrated her tendency to go psycho when drunk before the wedding, and that she is sticking to soft drinks for the big day itself....though shame on her for ruining your engagement party and I hope she does something really spectacular for you to make up for being such a b****.