I was being forced into having a hen do by my MoH and I was fine by that. When she got married she didnt have much of one so I was gonna let her throw me one. I told her that I dont want anything too much, just down the local pub for drinks after a small meal.
Since then, shes been going out her way, planning Alton Towers, over night in Uttoxeter and night on town after meal. I kept telling her that cus shes got a lot on her plate at the moment with her personal life, that shes gonna over stress and run herself out.
She didnt listen to me and carried on. (BTW, this is the same girl who isnt really talking to me cus of the whole baby thing)
Anyway, I got a txt yesterday saying that she cant orgainise my hen do anymore as its stressing her out. No-one that shes invited have got back to her etc, She said that she'll still be my MoH if I want her to be, only shes had to start dropping stuff to de-stress.
I asked her if she still wanted to be MoH and said that I did still want her to be but I dont know if its just because I have to relearn how to control my temper at the moment (I'm on Progesterone only contreceptive pill and its not agreeing with my mood H2B says that I'm hell to live with at the moment)
Please help me cus I really dont know if I want her to be MoH anymore cus I dont know if she'll get stressed and then stop being MoH weeks before the wedding.
I dont have many friends and if I was left to plan my hen do, I just wouldnt cus only 2 people would come.

HELP!!!!!! please

Hun, if you dont want her to be your MOH then tell her now, now's your chance to get out of it. As far as the hen nights involved if shes done all the planning in advance then all you need to do is chase people up, or if like me your not that bothered go for a few drinks with mates or just go on a normal night out x

Well I've txt her asking if she really wants to be MoH anymore and that if she does, will she be able to put herself into her MoH duties 100% (ish anyway). That was about 40 mins ago and I know shes not up to anything today and she still hasnt replied.

i agree with becca, wren, hope you get it sorted hun x

why not just organise a spa day for you and your closest girls? or a pyjama and pamper party at your house? Dress code is pyjamas, and everybody brings facepacks, manicure/pedicure stuff etc etc.
That way you dont need hoards of girls sporting cowgirl hats and weilding giant willies to go round the town with!

hope it works out for you! x

well, no moh anymore. Been confirmed. After all the bother thats already happened with the wedding plans I dont even feel upset at the mo. Think i've given up on all this stuff now

huni i really hope you find a better moh and dont even invite this ar$e to your wedding. How ungrateful. The silver lining is that you do still have time to find a replacement and you wont be put out on your day or disappointed on your hen, good luck xx