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    • Steffie
      CommentAuthorSteffie
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    Could you let your man do the full organisation of your big day?

    I know that he's have an £11000 stag do and leave £1000 for everything else so I'm very glad that we haven't done the TV show!

    I love watching it though! EVERY episode is sky plussed and I love re-waching them too lol

    xxx
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    • devondark
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    i would like to think i could.. i think he could do quite well,
    but saying that he terrible with money. so we would have a million ps3 games and no wedding lmao

    he has -helped with the planning very step of the way so far, he knows what everything will be, but its just his mind holding the info about what needs paid and when is again his downfall. i do trust him so it would be intresting thats for sure if we had applied for it.

    all episodes ive seen the bride has gotten something she would normally hate but seems to love every moment of it.

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    • Shazk
      CommentAuthorShazk
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    Steffie i would end up the same as you all the budget on the stag do and not left for wedding.

    My H2B really want to go on it, before we got engaged i was like oh i would let you plan it but now we actualy getting married NO WAY!!!!

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    • Ha_x3
      CommentAuthorHa_x3
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    I could never trust my husband to plan our wedding haha he couldnt have a clue bless him
    although the most important thing to me was marrying him so he could never of got it wrong.

    Ive never been one of these girls who dreamt of how my wedding would be, so i wouldnt have anything to compare it to anyway.

    we do watch it together though & dont we laugh xx

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    • Steffie
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    I just don't know how she can be happy when it's not what she wants lol

    But guess thats how much we know what we want and how much we are prepared to sacrifice to get EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT!

    xxxx
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    • Officially Mrs M
      CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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    i could trust my H2B with the wedding itself but not the dress he was helping me look before i went shopping and he was looking at fishtail dresses and a line dresses which is the opposite of what i have gone for lol!

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    • Princess2be
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    I could trust my h2b to organise a half decent wedding but i couldnt b away from him for three weeks with no contact!x




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    • mrsV2013
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    i could trust my h2b as he has a better eye for detail but he would go way over budget as i'm shopping around for best deals lol
    i hate not being in charge tho lol

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    • Lulu1388
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    My h2b actually applied for us to go on it back when we first got engaged as had so much family issues and also I didnt have a dream since I was a kid about what I wanted or what dress etc so! But kind of glad we didn't get through haha...sort of enjoying planning it now! And u always see how so how bad it affects the brides missing out! & 3wks away from him no no!!
    I never get why brides who are already bridezilla & have been planning it for years to the finest detail go on it!

    We do love watching it though! New series sometime this month wooo!!

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    • Hayley Elizabeth
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    I think i could trust mine but he hates spending anything and would get the cheapest of everything. Also, i think he would forget about hair, make up and things like that lol! xx
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    • KarenB9
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    I would trust my H2B to arrange our wedding, but i wouldn't want to I enjoy talking about our wedding together and planning things. If i wasn't in that process I feel I would be missing out !!
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    • FernP61
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    I dont think i could leave it all to my h2b to organise as we have very different taste he would prob have it in a football ground our colour is blue but we have both decided on this colour blue so thats good usually we cant agree on much lol. we have been to a few wedding fayres and there was a catwalk show we have the same taste on the suits we want but i was reeling as he liked all the white plain dresses with minimum detail on it hes been nagging me to have a white one but mines big and ivory, my panic was fianlly over when we went to a friends wedding three weeks ago he loved her dress it was princessy and blingy simular to mine except hers was a sweetheart type on the top, he would like to have everything plaina nd simple for the evening but im having my own way on that one i want to involve him as much as possible but its hard when we like different things but well get there lol xx
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    • BrideRAV
      CommentAuthorBrideRAV
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    We discussed doing this but I had several reasons not to do it. A I didn't want my special day broadcaster for millions to watch and judge me (they do cute things to make drama sometimes) and my oh. Second we can barely do one night away from each other and thirdly because I don't think he could take it if he disappointed me or anyone else because of getting something not quite right. I'd enjoy it and probably love everything but my oh is very severe on himself xx
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    • Ossie12
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    I mentioned this to my other half! Luckily he is very private and didn't want to be on the TV. I am sooo glad some of the things my other half have come out with! At one point he asked me what center pieces were and if we really needed them!
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    • SubbyMinx
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    I think my H2B would get everything pretty much spot on. He knows what I like, and he'd plan the day out really well. There might be a couple of bits that'd be rather different, and I'd never do, but it'd still work. I'd just be really upset to have no contact for 3 weeks, and that I wouldn't have all the fun of planning it myself!
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    • LauraJo87
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    My oh would do ok if left to his own devices....I would expect he'd forget things like hair, makeup, shoes etc

    It would be his friends leading him astray that I would hate! Yes, of course, no wedding is complete without cage dancers. Laura would love it! Hmmmm quite.

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    • phoebee
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    i think my h2b could do it, with ease he knows what I like. The hardest bit I think is picking the dress. x

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    • HelenW
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    I definitely would do it! My h2b is actually better at making decisions than i am, so I imagine he'd do a brilliant job! xx

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    • LisaT18
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    my h2b thinks that you turn up at the church and everything is how you want it. he thinks that they give you a dress and suit and all you have to do is turn up =( plus i am way too picky to let him do it. i want my day to be perfect how i want it =)
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    • ShelleyM46
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    i hav always said no but the more we do for our wedding plus he has seen my dress i think i cud trust him 2 do it but he wunt go on tv tho x

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    • princesspixie
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    I could definitely let him do it!!! In fact he'd probably do a better job than me, he's super organised and great with money and I know he'd put me first in all his decisions. The one thing I wouldn't like is missing the fun and excitement of planning it myself. xxxx

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    • Mrs van der Lee
      CommentAuthorMrs van der Lee
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    I would absolutely trust my OH with 90% of things but some of the dresses hes pointed out to me have ruled it out. i did print out an application form but thats as far as I got

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    • Mrsbayliss2B
      CommentAuthorMrsbayliss2B
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    I think my h2b would do a great job at everything as he is soooo organised and has to have a plan everything! He would do an amazing job BUT and a very big BUT not the dress! So for this reason I couldn't do it! Xbesides I'm having fun planning! :-) x

    I missed don't tell the bride last night was working till 10 so will watch it on Thursday x
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    • Mrs van der Lee
      CommentAuthorMrs van der Lee
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    ^ ^ ^ ^

    I love planning too!!

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    • Sazzell23
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    Did anyone see it last night? It was crazy! ;)
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    • Kristina
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    I wouldnt mind going on it, as i have programmed my husband to know what i like after a few years together.

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    • LauraJo87
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    I would have killed him on last nights one! Xx

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    • MrsC
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    I could trust my H2B to organise our wedding day but 3 weeks apart....nope, couldn't do that. It'd be awful for the kids too.

    I wouldn't want to do the show but I'm glad others do because sometimes it makes entertaining tv and occasionally you get to see a really lovely wedding day x

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    • *KelBel*
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    No I don't think I could lol... There's too many things I like being in control of, the money would be good and I don't think his best man would lead him off the rails, but I'm not sure on this one xx

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    • KayleyV
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    i told my h2b if we ever went on that he would have to look on my ideas on here in my scrapbook lol i keep showin him hints just ncase we ever did XD i am ready for it lol xxx

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    • Flossie
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    I would be happy for my OH to organise the wedding. We have the same tastes, want the same things and I know he'd do a fab job.. would probably be good for me as I'm such a worrier and stresser, he would just take it in his stride and get it done without faffing about like I would. I wouldn't ever actually let him organise it on his own though as I would hate not to be a part of my own big day and be involved in the whole planning process which usually only ever comes around once in a lifetime. I've spent years and years dreaming of my big day, I at least want to be involving in the organisation of it! x

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