This is not the best start to 2011 i am getting married in like 5 and a bit months and my papa died :'( which is bad enough as he was walking me part of the way down the aile but also as my wedding present he was paying for my meal and i went and spent the money i had saved on other stuff needed for the wedding. Mum said i can get the money as it was planned before his passing but the arsehole at the bank have frooze all his money for 6 months or longer nd now really dont no what 2 do really think of get a macyd's now i cant pluck £950 out of no where :/ any iders how i can save money on the food and i cant cut down the gueat list any shoter as it is just family now :/ sorry for the long moan jsut need help :/ x
CommentAuthorRags
bless ya, hope your ok, this time of night there arent many folk about so it can feel like ages before you get a response. Could you speak with the reception venue and maybe arrange a payment schedule, explain to them what happened. Other options include asking the bank/your mum for the money and paying them back when your dads assests are unfrozen. Or Option 3 if it is all family ask if they could donate £10 per head or something to cover the cost of the food that way??? Only options I hope things work out for you.x
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CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
poor poor you. i can only offer you sympathy and a great big virtual HUG!!!! i agree with Rags; ask the venue about it, they might be understanding, or you could try a bank loan? there's no reason that your family wouldnt chip in; they'd spend alot more than that on drinks at the reception - tell them that if they pay for themselves now, you'll buy them a curry or somthing when the money's there, as a memorial of both him, and your big day. i wish you so much luck!! Love&Light; B xxx
CommentAuthorRachie :D
So sorry for your loss I agree with the girls tbh. Huge hugs xxx
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CommentAuthorChrissy
So sorry about you losing your Dad babe. I also agree with the girlies, as a last resort you could get a bank loan, there is an answer somewhere hun. Hugs xxx
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CommentAuthorx ashlil x
sorry 4 ur loss, speak 2 the bank and explain, see if thers anything they can do for you. hope it all works out xx
CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
So very sorry to hear of you loss hun <hugs>.
On the meal front, I would also agree that you may be better off looking at a temporary loan until your dad's assets are unfrozen. If you also have a word (or get your mum to) with the solicitor who will be dealing with the will/probate, ask if they can try and get the funds released in advance. Unfortunately I know the bank is tied and can't do anything until probate is sorted. xx
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CommentAuthorloubylou
firstly do you mean papa as in grandfather? maybe you could ask all the family if they could all chip in as much as they can, some maybe able to afford more than others and agree to pay them all back when the bank sort out the finances. im sure they will all understand. if not then i agree with the girls... speak to the venue and explain whats happened. im sure there is a solution. sorry to hear about your loss xx
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CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
oh huni i am so sorry for your loss xx i agree with the girls but didnt just want to read and run. dont worry these things have a way o working themselves out and you arent out of options xxx i have to say that i am srprised that the bank are freezing his account for 6 months, these things usually get rosolved pretty quickly. maybe it is a standard thing they have to tell family incase there re any problems? see if your mum can get it resolved quickly witht he bank. this is the last thing you need to be worrying about at this time lots of love and cuddles xx
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
sorry to hear of you loss hugs
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CommentAuthorMrsSnedden2B
loubylou yeah i mean grandfather sorry scottish thing but i dont have a really dad so he was like my dad in many ways i will try what u have said girls thanks x
CommentAuthorRaquel007
So Sorry to hear that Hun!! I wish you all the luck in the world with sorting it.
Lets hope that there are people around who will help and fingers crossed it will all work out!! xx
