It's fine to rant Hun, sounds like you need to let off some serious steam. First off I hope you weren't too seriously injured in the accident and that you are recovering well, I suppose it's more the shock and fear that gets you even if you are not seriously injured. I think most brides have issues with h2bs family so you'll have loads of support with that here. Your friends are being selfish, when my friend had a car accident she had to tell me to give her some space as I was so grateful she was ok I wouldn't stop calling round asking if I could do anything. So your bm can't do it, one less to worry about. I'm so sorry about your cat, you must be devastated especially as its had an effect on what sounds like a much needed holiday.

You will enjoy the dress shopping because all attention will be on you and you'll be made to feel like a princess, I know you don't want to but you'll regret it if you don't.

I can't believe how many things have gone wrong for you. I had a few months like that where everything was poo and now it's getting better so there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Just think, this time next year you will be married to the man you love and all this will be way in the past. x

Aww thank you so so much for replying!!

Accident wasnt hurt too much crack ribs bruises infection in intestine from seat belt chipped chocyix (cant spell) Jus the after math of physio sessions endless doctors!! Been the worse few months from may really has!! and my friend Usless!! just makes me so nagry as im always there for them! :-( suppose you live and learn!!

Really did need the holiday but just not an option! what with wedding dont want to be borrowing money etc..

Good too hear my luck will hopefully soon change dont think i could take any more bad luck! :-(

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Sorry to hear all this Kirsty. I genuinely believe that everything happens for a reason and even though things seem like utter s*it sometimes it always leads us somewhere good. I hope very soon you will be in that place. Xxx

Have a good sleep and tomorrow will be a new day and a fresh start. Xxxx

Chin up beautiful :-) x Promise you before you know it everything will come together and ul make new 'better' friends hehe (inc me) and I am wedding mad!! It will all come together hun and you would so regret it if you cancelled it ... you have a fair few months until the big day so mabe give yourself a few days off and forget about it xxx

Deep breath...first enjoy your day 2mrw and forget things for a couple of hours.enjoy trying on lots of different types of dresses,have fun.We all get stressed sum more than others but lifes not easy and you can get through it...you have your h2b and your mum.xx

Hey hun keep smiling. Try speaking to the vet. My horse (bit different i know) had a bad accident and had a wacking bill but said i couldnt pay for it in one go so i pai in installments - you could ask them if you can pay it over a few months then although ulhave to cut back on holiday you could still go.
Enjo the dress shopping like the others said it will take your mind of it if only for a few hours then come back and tell us all about it xxxx

Things get tough hun - and you have definately had you fair share (and then some!!)
Run a hot bath and think about you, try and forget about all of the stresses on top of you. and force yourself to smile. Sounds silly but forcing a smile will cheer you up!
I am so sorry about all the things you are going through - just remember, it will get better.

Go dress shopping, take you mind off everything and feel like a princess in the beautiful dresses

*hugs*

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Big hugs for you! Stresses are like buses, nothing for ages and then three at a time, try to see the light at the end of the tunnel and things can only get better for you from here on xx

Yeah Im off dressing shopping tomoro! Cant wait!!
EEEEEEEEEK!! xxx

Glad you are feeling brighter today and woo you get to be a princess tomorrow. Enjoy your day and remember we are all here for you when you are low. We might not be able to do anything physically but we can always say nice things to make you feel that you aren't cracking up. x

Didnt want to read and run but looks liike the others have goven u good advise and comments x hope dress shopping helps and like the others say ur not alone rant away when needed xxx

Thank you ladies im actually really excited for Dress shopping Tomoro :-) Going to take My Amazing Mum and My 8 year Old son Beocz there both My bestest Friends :-) Then obv if i see one i like Ill ask My BMS to come Have had a lovely evening Other half paid the 40 pound this week towards wedding n gave me 50 for nails and toes to get a mani n pedi.. Have got my beloved cat cremated on his own and a lil box for him!!

Dont Care about my silly friends anymore actually why should i when i have all i need right now.. My amazing fiancee mum family and son!!

My other 2 bridesmaids r my cousins and they have been amazing really helpful!!

I hope ure all well just waiting for some luck to come my way! But i suppose i need hard time to love the good days we have! :-) Thanks for listening!!


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hope you have a fantastic time today xx

Big hugst o you hope dress shopping goes well keep us posted xxx