well found out on saturady that my H2B dad is going to be having a baby with his new partner. well were do i start my H2B is 22 and his dad is 40 and his dads girlfriend is 25 so nt much age gap between H2B and dad new mrs. as my H2B is an only child as now found out that he will be having a half brother or sister, he wasnt to pleased about this and hurt and upset as the relationship that he use to have with his dad was fantastic but know they hardly talk or c each other since his dad has got this 25 year old. she has two children 5 and 6 and he thinks more of them. my self and H2B have just recently had a little girl (12 weeks old) and his dad dow really bother with her to wraped up in his girlfriends kid to bother with his own son n grandaughter. me,H2B and his girlfriend have never seen eye to eye after acussing my dad at my engagment meal of touching her up wouldnt mind but it was my nan standing by her. another thing she copys every think that we have done like we got engaged they did the same year, i had a new car so did they, we brought a new apartment they try to get a part buy part rent house but fell through ha, we have had a baby and now they are no douht they will be getting married soon as they can when his divorce as come through.
SORRY for the rant just need some one to tell as im going mad lol x x x

he dont really like her to be honest to childish as my H2B is very mature always has been lol i just feel sorry for him as he feel like his lost his dad and his best friend sad really x x

Hi, my situation isnt exactly the same but similar, no baby involved but there were rumours. My dad is 50 and his new partner is 25, i'm 24. It sucks!! My dad spends little time with my kids and is too wrapped up in her. It bothered me for a long time though now i have realised life is too short. Try to focus on your own little family unit, just u, h2b and your little one. That's what i've done now and it's causing me alot less hurt.

I think my dad is so wrapped up in the fact he's with a much younger woman and she has him wrapped around her little finger, i'd expect that is probably the case with H2B's dad too.

I hope that it all works out in the end.
xx

I would be so annoyed with my dad if he did that - Think you H2b needs a little chat with his dad and try get things sorted out

I understand the most men don't like talking about emotional stuff, but he has to try talking to him. At least if he does that and his dad doesn't change then he will know that he has done everything he can and it is all up to the dad. And at the end off the day, it's his loss missing out on his son and grandchild.

just try to be supportive for h2b as he wont be impressed im sure