this kinda falls into two categories but it mainly to do with ry so anyway
him and his best friend have been mates since forever but since they went into business together (i know bad idea) they have done nothing but fall out and then make up and fall out again!! now on tuesday we all went to manchester for rys birthday (even tho it not till the 21st) cos i had managed to get him a ticket to see peter kay (he loves him) and matt (bm) said he would take him and whilst on route his girlfriend said she would make our cake as their wedding present!!(She great) but then they had a huge fall out and i dont know if they gonna make up and im worried as he is sposed to be his best man and i dont know what to say to him for the best i know everyone was tired and irritable but this is ridiculous!!! i dont know what to do with regards to the whole wedding situation!! Do i just leave it and wait see if they make up again or do i take it that theynot and try find someone else to do the cake or should i pay zoe to do it anyway??
im really confused and i dont know what to say for the best!!
plus he is really not bothered about helping with anything with regards to the wedding still and i need o know what to do!! i need to start booking things even if it is for 2 or 3 years ahead!! and he wont help!! he is always just spending his money as it comes ion on rubbish and i cant seem to get through to him that we need to save! plus he keeps saying we are boring because we dont go out and he wants to go away for a weekend because he has been working a lot and we have hardly seen each other!!
i just dont know waht to do for the best anymore!!!
sorry or the long rant!!!!
i cannot wait to marry my best friend
i love you ry!!!
engaged midnight 2009
Mrs Ryan Sheader (to be) lol :D
CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
oh hunny.................
all i kept in mind wen it came to our wedding is the only people we could rely on 2 make sure it was all done was ourselves, with this volitile relationship i would strongly advise u 2 sort a cake from another source hunny. if u make up bonus just explain u felt itd be best and if not least ur prepared.
as far as not knowing whether he'll still be bst man etc hunny u have enough to worry about planning everything do yourself a favour sweetie and let hubby to be worry about that. am sure if he feels the bm situation isnt right he can sort it.
try not to worry thats the 1 part of the day thats all down to h2b lol x x x x
6 n a half weeks scan!!!!!! x x x
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
thanks hun it just that it really getting to him about matt and i want to be able to help and i dont know how :( still i think you are right about the cake but i just know she is good and that i could trust her as she starting out as a business so would be good for her too but with her being matts girlfriend first hmmm so yeah will look into doing it differently x
thanks xx
i cannot wait to marry my best friend
i love you ry!!!
engaged midnight 2009
Mrs Ryan Sheader (to be) lol :D
