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    • Lulu1388
      CommentAuthorLulu1388
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    Something I havent come across or even thought about before...

    I'm just looking up flowers/arrangements etc trying to find a silk flowers company in the local area... and just thought,

    Does the groom get to help decide on flowers and table arrangements and if so does this include your bouquet? Or can he help make decisions on all including bridesmaid/flowergirls etc just not your own bouquet?

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    • Princess2be
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    I think im going to do my own and bridesmaids etc myself. If he wants an input on arrangements then fair enuf but he probably wont, lol.




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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
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    i think its personal choice mine r all foam and he knows whats theyre excpet mine but its up to u x

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    • Linzi-jo
      CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
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    I dont see anything wrong with him having a say in it all. My h2b probably wont as he is leaving most things up to me but I would have no problem with asking his opinions on them if I found ones I liked xxx

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    • mrsV2013
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    my friend had her husband help choose everything but bm dress's and flowers and her dress and flowers. i'm not letting my h2b see my flowers i want the wow factor :)

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    • natalie2614
      CommentAuthornatalie2614
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    H2b won't be here to help me pick, he will be deployed. I don't think flowers are his thing either! Suppose it's down to personal choice if they get involved or not xx

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    • Elliekitty
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    My H2B has helped with everything bar my own dress etc :) It feels more about "us" then just me making the decisions x

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    • LauraJo87
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    Lol wouldn't let h2b near the flowers and decorations...we would end up with an arsenal theme wedding! Xx

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    • Shazk
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    LauraJo87 i totally agree if i left my H2B to it id have leeds colours and decorations everywhere.

    I think onlything i wont let him see or know abot is my dress all the other stuff id be ok with (not that he will have much input im lucky if i get more than a grunt when ask his opinion lol) x

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    • Mrs Davro
      CommentAuthorMrs Davro
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    My h2b has helped with everything except the bridesmaids and my dress.

    He saw me making my bouquet and is very proud of me.
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    • Lulu1388
      CommentAuthorLulu1388
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    oh no i definitely wouldnt leave him to it by himself, we'd have a whole westbrom themed wedding if he had his way! the only wba he's getting at the wedding is my garter which he doesnt know but will be the albion one haha.

    he is a typical bloke with his lack of interest and input but he is giving more than i thought so reckon i'll be making him help me make the floral decisions haha.

    thanks guys

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    • Mrs brown - 19/08/12
      CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
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    my h2b chose the flowers, there so lovely! hes got an eye for detail x
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    • Gazza 122
      CommentAuthorGazza 122
     
    Kev helped me chose the flowers too and even suggested what colours the BM's have.....he's got good taste xx




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    • JoanneS30
      CommentAuthorJoanneS30
     
    I am in love with the brooch bouquet thing will need to run this by H2B, but if he doesn't fancy that idea we are sticking with out Roses and Thistle idea :-D, H2B has say in everything :-D
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    • mym72
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    I visited the florist and ordered the flowers as my husband didn't want to go with me in case I needed to discuss flowers to go with my dress. After they were ordered though, I showed him them online and he also had a say in buttonholes and the bridesmaid's bouquet.

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    • mrs clarke to be
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    i have ordered my bouquet and 2 eldest bridesmaid and women's button holes my self my other half said he would like to help choose the other flowers for the tables bridesmaid etc i think its up to ur man really what he would like to get involved in unusually my man is very pro active xx




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    • phoebee
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    My h2b has helped pick all the flowers, we pick them up on Saturday.

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    • Shazk
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    Lula88 Im having one with the Leeds badge on but like you he wont know about that (yellow is not my colour at all so when he said he wanted leeds colours i nearly died) have settle for blue (if can get my way will change to Teal , still classes as blue in my eyes lol)

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    Away with the flutterbys xxx


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    • Lulu1388
      CommentAuthorLulu1388
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    Oh yeah definitely! Well whenever we've been in the baggies shop he's seen it and joked about it but I've always said no as refuse to be a 'fan' but more recently thought ah well may as well will make him smile!

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    • Ha_x3
      CommentAuthorHa_x3
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    I would say its up to the individual couple/bride.

    My husband was involved in everything to do with our wedding, he even helped me choose my wedding dress (he only saw a photo online untill we flew to cyprus)

    because we were getting married alone we decided to scrap tradition lol x

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    • FernP61
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    we are going to pick the flowers together but im going to have more input in mine and my bmaids boquets xx
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    • clive
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    I have a small input in the flowers, in as much as she will ask my opinion on certain things, but by enlarge, Liz will be taking care of most of it.
 

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