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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    hey girls,

    just been thinking do u send menus out with invites or wait? cos then if i dont i will have to send them all out??

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    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Mrs fairytale
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    i sent the menu choices out in my invites hun xx

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    • Excited_bride_to_be
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    If you want to send money on stamps you should send them out with the invites, also people can rsvp and tell you their menu choice at the same time. :) Xxx
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    cool thxs girls!!!

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    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
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    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    I'm sending them out with the invites so they can tell me what they want at the same time as letting me know if they are coming. I figured that it would help to get the rsvp's back too. Can't see the point in sending out stuff after the invites as its just more costs for me in stamps and things.




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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    yes thats wat i was thinkin! my menus dont match my invites lol whoops aww well lol

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Croc
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    my menu choice is on my website where they are rsvping ... so yeah i reckon in with the invites ... people might forget to do it if you send them seperatly

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    • sam73
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    mine arent having a menu, i have picked what we are all having and on the day i will have a big sign up by the table plan with the menu on it.
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    • Future Mrs Doublé
      CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
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    The venues I have looked into don't leave choice except vegetarian or special diets (like diabetic or allergy nuts I guess), so do I have to send menu with meaty/vegetarian option or should I just ask them if they have special diet?

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    • Faeth
      CommentAuthorFaeth
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    I'm not sending out menus with the invites because there isn't really a choice for my guests to make, other than "main meal, kids meal or vegetarian", which I'm putting on the RSVP, along with space for them to advise of any other special dietary requirements......

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    • Vicky
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    I just put specail requirements.. But did send them out with the invites
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    lys put alittle note in askin if they have any special requiremtns mayb? we have a choice of chicken wrapped in bacon ina white wine n mushroom sauce or roast beef dinner wiv red wine sauce and a veggie meal!

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • ljeh92
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    Mine didnt match my invites, the card was the wrong colour cos we made the menus ourselves but sent them out anyway. we just personalised them by sticking pink butterflies on them. I told them to let us know of any dietry requirements or if they would like the alcohol free package xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awww cool ljeh am not only 1 then heheh i never thought to do them the same lol duh at me

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    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • ljeh92
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    Me neither, i didnt even think about sending out the menus at first!! I can be useless at this sort of stuff sometimes!

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    lol bless u

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    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Unknown
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    my guests dont get to choose what they are eating so havnt put in the menu. but would send with the invites!




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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    u see me and h2b are payin extr £5 pp to give them a choice cos i never been to a weddin wivout a choice and h2b is fussy he wants beef dinner cos he wont eat mushrooms, onions tomatos etc etc grrrrrrrrrrr lol and i want the chicken lol

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • suzky123
      CommentAuthorsuzky123
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    IF U HAD A CHOICE OF MENUES ID SENT WITH THE INVITES.... UNFORT WE DONT HAVE A CHOICE BUT AT LEAST THATS ONE LESS THING FOR US TO WORRY ABOUT

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    • suzky123
      CommentAuthorsuzky123
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    sorry just realised caps was on.... wasnt shouting.... honest hehe

    cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
    start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
    weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
    total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
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    • Jilly17
      CommentAuthorJilly17
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    I would definately send them out with the invites as giving people 2 lots of things to reply to may just cause confusion and people forget. I would still detail the menu even if you did not have a choice as the vegeterian option would act as a choice for those who do not like the main you have chosen.
 

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