hi me and my h2b had planned on having a simple registry office wedding and then a reception disco at the village hall but since then a few things have happened a few family members dont speak since my h2b is a traveller (gypsy) it will be open invites and we are worryed its going to be more hassle than anything else do we go away for the weekend or do we have a party or what do we do
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
Only u and ur hubby 2 be can decide that hunni. if ur having second thoughts about ur reception make sure ur not liable to pay for whatever you have booked with it being quite close to your wedding. dont let your families influence you and do what ever you both want to do x
Got with the most wonderful man on 1/09/05
Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
Looking forward to becoming Mrs Houghton!
CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I personally would want a reception after the ceremony. What are you worried about?
I love my lickle Ava
CommentAuthorAbi4tomboy
we have had a few arguments and my h2b is worryed it could be akward and hes worryed that not as many people will turn up
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
dont have a reception then that way you will avoid any confrontation etc
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
thats what we are umming and arring about im not getting involed with it ive told him as its not my family casuing the problems if he doesnt want it thats his choice but really looking forward to putting my dress on for half an hour to then come home yippie!
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
Nothing stopping you going for a meal with your side of the family after the wedding etc?
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
CommentAuthorJane
Why dont you just have a little garden party back at your new house? Put up some bunting, small buffet, lanterns for when it gets dark, games for the kids, could be lovely!
CommentAuthorAbi4tomboy
my side of the family there 3
CommentAuthorsam73
I think that if you are thinking of not having a reception why didn't you choose to get married abroad? That way you woul escape all the hassle if you think it will be hassle and probably could do it cheaper? Only a thought x
CommentAuthorAbi4tomboy
abroad isnt an option for us as we are not paying for it and my family are
