I have thoughts on my hen night (along with the help of my BM's) i have thought about this early so the ppl i would like to invite get an early heads up on the costs and plans etc....
thing is....do i have to invite all my hen night girlies to the wedding day? they would have evening invites anyway for sure....but whats the etiquette here? if they come on the hen do, will they automatically assume they are on the main do guest list!?!?!?!
CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
We're very restricted on numbers for our wedding, day and evening, and most of that is taken by family - so when I sent the invites out for my hen do I just let those girls who I can't invite to the wedding know that this was the case, and that I would still like them to come for the hen do if they could. Everyone was quite alright with it - or at least they werre to my face lol
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CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
I've only invited those girls that I will be inviting to the wedding. TBH, I'd feel strange if I was invited to a hen do but not the wedding. Although, if you're inviting them to the evening so, I think that's fine...Hx
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CommentAuthorRoxy
I went to a hen party and I was only invited to the evening, I didn't mind at all I was just happy to share in the hen party :)
CommentAuthorGazza 122
Yes, they will be invited defo to evening part, but i am limited with numbers too, and woiuld feel strange inviting some of them to the day and not others so i have kept it uniform by evening only...
i had quite a few at my hen night who are only coming to the evening do, i dont think thats a problem really :) x
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CommentAuthorGazza 122
great! thanks for your help xxx
CommentAuthorFaeth
Quite a few of my Hens are only invited to the evening do, so I wouldn't worry about it at all.
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CommentAuthorJill
I wouldnt imagine that'd be a problem hun, it wouldnt be for me x
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CommentAuthorlozzatea
i wouldnt assume i would be going to the whole wedding if i was invited on the hen do- i will deffo only be inviting some to the night only. if they came on the hen do i would invite them to the wedding in some form if that makes sence?!?
CommentAuthorGazza 122
perfect sense! thank you :))
CommentAuthortimpson123
i agree that evening only is fine.
CommentAuthorMrsSaraParry!
All mine are invited to the whole day, but that's honestly only because I don't know many people and all the people coming are family or very close friends! lol, but evening only will be fine I'm sure :o)
CommentAuthorchubblywubbly
i have people on my hen party list that are only on my evening list..but will tell them that it is only really family at the whole day as me and my H2b have such big families each! im sure my friends will understand and still be happy that they are joining in the partying..im sure your friends will too! :) x
CommentAuthorlozzatea
Glad that made sence Kevs Angel... i waffle on a bit sometimes
CommentAuthorMrsowen2b
My friend got married and I was invited to hen do but not the day yet I was invited at night and was fine with this x
CommentAuthormrssmith2b
im going my friends hen party and i am only going the evening reception! i love hen parties so i dont mind one bit! lol :)
CommentAuthorGazza 122
Lovely stuff - thanks for putting my mind at rest xx i would hate people to think i was being rude lol x
CommentAuthorMrs Brakes
Ooo I hope not, I've just invited nearly every female I know on facebook to my local 'do' but hardly any are invited to the evening and they'll be bringing friends that I've not met yet too!
