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Family/Attendants Stress: Do I say anything?

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- CommentAuthormizzkt
Had my hen do at weekend....I had a great time...but the whole day my h2b mum, aunt and two cousins were rude, antisocial and just dudnt talk to anyone. And a few of my friends told me they were asking when they could go home...and this was just after we arived at bar.
Now I still had a good night but its really pissed me off and I dont know if I should say anything. ....or should i just keep quiet....im worred they will be assy at wedding too now....but they might be ok coz whole of their family will be there if that makes sence.

Kt x
- CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
They may have just been clicky if they didn't know anyone and maybe thats why they came across as rude?

If you know for definite that they were being rude on purpose, it depends if you think it will cause a row. Sometimes It's easier to just let things go, no matter how much they wind us up, because the reaction to your action could make the situation a whole lot worse x

I really did marry my Mr Wright and we had a nice day for a
Wright wedding!
Mexico for our first anniversary
- CommentAuthorShazk
Nina x

Away with the flutterbys xxx
- CommentAuthorlinz2015
Glad to hear you had a good night even with you in laws being rude. Have to told your h2b about your concerns for your wedding day? maybe he could have a word. if it was me though I have to say I probably wouldn't bother to say anything but thats because we are already expecting trouble as h2b's dad isn't invited and doesn't know that yet.
Hope it all goes ok either way.
- CommentAuthormizzkt
I spoke to h2b and he said if it had ruined my night he would say something. ...but I still had fun.
So I might leave it...im just annoyed as they are very rude. i over heard them talking about one of my friends and when mil2b said I dont know who is who...his aunt said does it really matter.

They are very much the kind of people who only think about themselfs and family only....think their families are amazing amd everyone else dosnt matter.

But if I say something im worried somthing may kick off....but its like a huge weight on me now making me feel crap.

- CommentAuthorlinz2015
at least you've told your h2b. that way if he notices them like it on the big day he can take them aside and have a quiet word. hopefully so you and your other friends and family don't notice.
- CommentAuthormizzkt
Yeah I spoke to h2b and he says if they are antisocial at wedding we shall ignore them and have fun with my family and all our friends. X
- CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
On your wedding day, you will not give a t0ss who is where and speaking to you or not. Youll be far too wrapped up in yourselves and your day :o)

I really did marry my Mr Wright and we had a nice day for a
Wright wedding!
Mexico for our first anniversary
- CommentAuthormizzkt
Thanks mrs Wright! :-) that made me smile. X
- CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
Good - Well take it from someone who worried about X, Y and Z and on the day, nothing mattered! Its true! It won't matter if your ribbons are 3mm as opposed to 5mm. We didn't even notuice until after the ceremony and halfway through the meal that our sashes were white rather than gold!

I really did marry my Mr Wright and we had a nice day for a
Wright wedding!
Mexico for our first anniversary
- CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
id let it go hun...

Ill marry my hero
- CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think they shouldn't have come if they were gonna moan! Everyone knows u go on hen dos to socialise,that's the whole point!

Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
- CommentAuthorJenniferY90
My SIL2B sat with a face on her through out my hen night, she wouldn't join in the games, wouldn't have any of the drinks provided, wouldn't dance and was so miserable looking that even people I didn't know where asking what was wrong withe the girl in the corner because she looked so miserable. I mentioned it to h2b but left it at that. If they didn't ruin your night then I wouldn't worry about it, if they are rude at the wedding maybe have a quiet word but I doubt you will even notice it.
- CommentAuthormizzkt
Ive decided not to say anything....its gonna cause more issues.

Iv spoke to my friends and they said to rise above it....they had fun....I had fun......leave it at that.
- CommentAuthorsarah
It sounds like they were feeling a bit shy/overwhelmed on the day. Not everyone can be a social butterfly during big events. And I agree with MrsWright290912, you will not notice on your big day what they're doing.

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