My dads wife brought me up from the age of 2 but when I turned 18 she disowned me for no real reason to keep it short
I left home and she has stopped my seeing my little sister and brothers
when i do see my dad which is very rare she gives him greif about it
It has took my 4 years for me to get over her and I supoose grieve losing another mother

I don't ever want to see her again and definately don't what her to ever meet my little boy
it may sound extreme but I have my reasons
I asked my dad about invites the other day and said she is not invite but would like to invite my sister and brothers
and of course my dad will be there
He said just to send the invite to all of them cos it may cause more grief than good and he could put money her not coming
which may be true but if I do put her on the invite it will be all I will be able to think about on the run up 2 the wedding
I will be worried sick just incase she does decide to turn up and it would ruin my day


What do I do?!?!?!?

Honestly... if i walked out and see her I don't no if I could carry on walking(that probs sounds lame)
never mind the fact ben doesn't want her there and if he realised it was her would throw her out which would be a crap start would it
arghhhh so hard
times like theses i wish we did just go off and do it just us!!!

They will have to RSVP before hand wont they?

And if she RSVPs no then tell her she cant change her mind last minute and just turn up!
And if she does happily send her packing!!

xxx

I wouldn't send an invitation if you don't want her there. I know there may be ructions but at least there wouldn't be any bother with her on the day. My rule is not to invite someone if you don't want them there...no matter how much you believe they will say no! Coz sod's law would be that she says that she will come!

Wouldnt give her the benefit of the doubt dont do it lol x