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    • Kaya
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    Thinking of you sweetie x

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    • Rachie :D
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    How you doing today? Hope his surgery went well. Much love to you both xxx

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    • lemlau
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    Thank u all for your wishes and support. He came out of surgery at 11.50pm and the HDU nurse said he was still groggy and coming round. His obs were satisfactory and i can go see him at 9.30 this morning. I'm hoping he won't be in hdu all day and that he'll go up to the ward some time today.

    Excited and nervous to see him and glad that that jorfible thing is out of him and we can start on our long road of recovery but we just have to see it as a little journey we have to go on.

    Can't remember if i have already said but we have decided to postpone the wedding as we want martyn to be 100% well and enjoy his day too. Xx

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    • Little Kettle
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    Bet you can't wait to see him later. Sending well wishes from London Hx

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    • mrssmith2b
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    so sorry for your very sad news! hope all goes well and that you both get alot of support! take care xx
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    • Sian-Louise
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    So sorry to hear this babe, my thoughts are with you and H2B.....bet you cant wait to see him today and Im glad they have said the op went ok **hugs** xxx
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    • nickers
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    big hugs chick now you can start ur journey we are here to support you lots of love xxx

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    • RedBee12
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    Give his big hugs from all us B2Bs. Hope he is felling good today xxxx
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    • becky -mrs firth
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    awww babe! how is he? has he had a stoma done? or they just taken nasty thing out and re attached??

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    • MrsOwen
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    hugs to you, sending all my love and hope he has a speedy recovery xxxxx

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    • Julie Walker x
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    Hope he comes out of hdu today hun xxx

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    • Rachie :D
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    That is good news hunni - the wedding can wait at the mo sorry to sound harsh but his health comes first and it will make the day so much more special xxx

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    • lemlau
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    Oh god totally wedding can wait. His health is tons more important.!!

    No he has had just a cut and reattachment no bag or stoma. I know how to say what hes had but not how to spell it!

    He is doing fantastically!! He was in hdu till midday and got moved to a ward!! Hdu docs and nurses were very plsd with him as was the surgeon!!! A smaller incision than they expected so thats good too. He is extremley tired but still upbeat when he is awake. This is where it goes to show how age and health is on his side!!!

    Today i'm as happy as i could be! I've even managed to put on make up!! ;-)

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    • Mrsd
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    Am thinking of you both, sounds like hes recovering from surgery well :) huge hugs to you & h2b. xx
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    • clewsy
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    glad hes recovering wishing you both good healthxx
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    • MrsH2B
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    OMG Hun so sorry to read all this, but so glad his surgery went well & he's on the road to recovery!
    Hugs & best wishes to u & your family! xxx

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    • Rachie :D
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    Well Done him :) Im sure it will make him feel even more better seeing you so positive xxx

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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    Im so glad the op went well for him xx

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    • Julie Walker x
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    Great news!!! So pleased to hear you so positive, it must have been caught nice and early too. :0) xx

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    • Helen
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    xx Glad the op went well. Love and hugs to you both x
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    • Oct12bride86
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    So glad he is out of surgery and doing well. Love and hugs to you both.

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    • Laticschick Holland
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    so glad it went well, like you said his health is the main thing and your big day will come around again. hugs to you both xx
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    • mummybez
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    Glad the op went well and I definately know what your going through at the moment althought its not my h2b my mum also has bowel cancer and has her op booked the week before our wedding. What's horrible was she was given the all clear originally after months of treatment only to find it had reappeared within months. We we're thinking of cancelling too but the hospital said that even if she has to still be in hospital they may be able to let her out for the ceremony and tbh that's what's keeping her going at the moment cos she wants to be there too. Obviously I've already had my tears cos I want my mum to be there and because she's one of our witnesses but also cos it wouldn't be the same without her, but we've not given up hope just yet.

    How long has he stayed in after his op?

    My mum's been told she will have to go into intensive care after because her breathing intake and outake was below average :-(
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    • becky -mrs firth
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    aww ace hun!! theres so many different names for bowel surgery lol cud be a hemicolectomy or sumting like that!

    glad hes ok! in a few weeks u can think about your new date then , may i suggest mine si very gud x

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    • Suzie Bear
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    I think you are both so brave! Only just spotted this thread. We are all behind you x

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    • NHR115
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    Glad to hear the op went well hun. My thoughts are with you both for a speedy recovery. You keep your chin up and remember we're only a click away. xxx




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    • nickers
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    aw thats great news hun thinking of you both big hugs yes big day can wait ur h2b will want to be fit to enjoy your day lots of love xxx

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    • Vicky
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    That is brilliant news fingers crossed that he makes a speepy recovery.. P.s dont eat peas the shells dont go through very well!!
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    • Julie Walker x
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    Vicky he didn't have the bag....peanuts are interesting too!

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    lol yes my mate slittle sister had stoma put on and had a snickers..... dint go down well wiv her!

    mrs walker is he nil by mouth for a while or can he eat now?

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    • lemlau
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    He was a bit down yesterday as he wanted the catheter out and everything sinking in now. He has had it out today as well as all the other lines, morphine and drip. He's getting there. Hopefully he'll be out on thursday fingers crossed.

    Mummybez ; he had to go to HDU so pls don't feel sad about intensive care. He wasn't there long at all and try to see it as its the road to recovery. Everyday is a new day to getting better.

    He was allowed water when he woke up and then started on jellies, clear fluids yesterday and eating a soft diet today.

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    • Ataraxia
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    Glad he's doing better!

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    • Unknown
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    that is some good news! glad he is improving xx




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    • benji1971
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    I am so sorry to hear your news.I am a nurse socan fully understand the shock to you both. Bowel cancer has made great advancesin recent years with a resection and chemo - things should turn out ok - focus on a lovely honeymoon oce the chemo is over it'l give you something else to thinkabout rather than the treatment. Thinking of you ....ah i just read ur updated post...he's had it done HDU can be normal post bowel surgery. Wishing you both all the luck in the world you will get over it x
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    • becky -mrs firth
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    lemlau i kno how he feels about the catheter! they say u cant feel them BUt u can!!

    yes dont feel bad about the icu thing hun! it sonly cos thye wanan keep a closer eye on u!

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    Hey Hun, I've only just seen this post haven't really been on properly for a week or so. I'm sorry about your h2b, i'm pleased the operation went well. My thoughts are with you both and wishing your h2b a speedy recovery. Lots of love and hugs honey.

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    • Julie Walker x
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    Great news! so pleased he is doing well! xxx

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    • krazykitty
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    glad things are going well hun xx il keep thinking of you both x

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    thinking of you both xxxxx
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    • lemlau
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    May be coming home today fingers crossed. He had a temp last night even though he felt fine so waiting for blood results to be certain there isn't any thing to worry about.

    Looking forward to having him home and spending a few days in bed by ourselves just chilling out!

    You have all been fantastic!!!!!! Thank you so much ESP to spooney that was lovely of you


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    • becky -mrs firth
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    awww glad he gettin btter now, bein nosey lol wat did spooney do lol

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    • lemlau
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    Ah she sent me an e get well card for martyn. Xxx

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Awwwww - thats sooo nice of spooney!!!

    Fingers crossed he definitely gets to come home hun! Enjoy your time with him and spoil him rotten! xxxxxx

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    • Lisa Ramos
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    Glad everything is looking so good.

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    • Kerrylou
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    Glad to hear the op went well and he's feeling better. Got everything crossed for him coming out today!
    Loads of love and hugs to you both
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    • mjb87
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    hope he gets better very soon - thinking of you xx
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    • CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
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    Fingers crossed Hubby 2 be gets to come home to you today.

    Lots of love sweetie xxx
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    • Vicky
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    Hope Martyn does go home today.. Fingers crossed
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    • gothprincess
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    I just want to wish him a speedy recouvery xxx
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    • lemlau
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    Ah thanks girls.

    Not coming home today just cos he did have a temp yesterday they want to be doubly sure he's fine. Gutted but would rather him be 100% not 90%!!! never mind he's fab today so no reason why he shouldn't come home tomorrow

    Xxxx

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