As the title suggests I am in a real quandry over which wedding ring to get.... My E/ring is a brilliant cut flawless solitaire in platinum, which I now love (I was worried it was too dainty and plain for my big hands to start with!). Now we are trying to find a w/ring to match it. I had an idea in my head of the sort of ring I wanted - a platinum band, traditional band shape, with small diamonds set around but spaced apart. Then I found a ring on the hight street that seemed to really match my e/ring but was totally different to what I thought I wanted. The last night we had the ring company that comes to your house - and they had exactly the sort of ring that I first thought of. Now I'm stuck between the 2! I hope I don't sound like a spoiled brat - I just am so indecisive and I can't try the rings on side by side as they are from different places.....
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
What is your heart telling you to do? Deep down?
Or if all else fails, flip a coin. If you are disappointed, you want the other one. If your pleased, its the right one.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorMolly
I just think i'm starting to lose the plot! How have I become so incapable of making a decision?! I think it's just that the salesman sort of scared me with the 'you'll wear this for the rest of your life nso make sure it's right' speech.... I put some photos on my profile just in case my descriptions don't make sense. Maybe I need a day or so to stew on it - then I'll flip the coin! Good plan Dove!
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
I like the first one best - its different. I havent seen one like that before, but Ive seen loads like the second one.
CommentAuthorMolly
Hi Roxy - you mean the one with the dip in it at the top is the one you like best? Thanks for helping!
I like the first one as well, I agree with what Roxy said about it being different and you may wear it for the rest of your life but its about what it means and which ever ring is put on your finger on the day, you will love anyway because it will always remind you of that moment :)
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3
Love, love... Here we are.
CommentAuthorMolly
I guess I'm just worried that it will look strange if I ever wear it on it's own......But then I don't think I will want to not wear my e/'ring (and the h2b jokingly said that i'd better keep wearing it after the amount he paid!!)
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
I suppose if you want to wear it on it's own then maybe the full band would be best as the first one looks like its designed to fit around the e ring :) But if you want to wear your e-ring and your wedding ring then there's no worries :P
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3
Love, love... Here we are.
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
Yeah thats the one I meant. Tbh, I dont think it would look too odd on its own. Have you tried it on?
CommentAuthorMolly
Yes, I tried it on and I really liked it....so we ordered it! Had already booked the ring company that comes to your house so decided to keep the appointment anyway, then he turned up with the sort of ring that I thought I wanted but couldn't find anywhere. Then the dilemma started... One of the rings is £125 less than the other - but has more diamonds and of a much better quality...so head says that's the right one...but i'm just not sure!
