I went to see a venue and I was entered into a competion (I have attached a link on my wall), the winner would win the venue hire costs which are £3450 and a basic cake, photographer and flower package. We worked out that we wouldn't be able to afford to get married there, if we didn't win. Because I never heard back from them I presumed I hadn't won and went to see two other venues and was extremely happy when I was told I could have the wedding ceremony in the beautiful house (see photo in my album) and we could then take a short drive (I'm hiring a red double decker bus) and have the wedding breakfast in a marquee (see photo in my album) at a local cricket ground. I have provisionally booked both venues and have an appointment to go back next Monday, to pay deposits. These venues are close to the town centre, which means that any evening guests who just wanted to pop in for a little while, could do relatively cheaply. Also I could have a bouncy castle a bucking bronko if I wanted and it wouldn't look out of place where the marquee is. I have lots of guests traveling and there is a cheap budget hotel 1 minute away from my venue, so guests don't even need a taxi.
I have just had a phone call to say I have won that competition and I actually felt sick and my head feels woozy! The woman must have sensed that I wasn't very happy and even said 'you haven't booked anywhere, have you?'
I have spoken to my Mum and best friend and they were all 'wow that's fantastic' and I just feel gutted that they hadn't contacted me earlier to say I had won, before I had found these other venues.
The venue I have won will allow you to get married outside, weather permitting and this was one of the reasons I loved it. The cost of food and drink etc are alot more expensive and I will only be saving about £1000 if I use the venue of the competition I have won. There is the problem of guests who may not come because of the location and even those that book a hotel will need to get a taxi. My day guests will now want to drive as it's about 25 minutes away, and a taxi will cost them significantly more.
My h2b was no use what so ever and even tried the usual bull$hit of 'I would marry you in the garden, if it meant marrying you', lol. The garden isn't an option and if it was I would obviously choose the venue that I have won!
Please help me make a decision! What would you do if you won this, but had already found somewhere else?
