so the MIL had questioned me the other day about why i was having my mum give me away and not my dad. Even though i have explained to her and she already knows that my dad has never really been there for me and my sister and has only the past few years got in contact. Am i right or not why should i keep to tradition if my father has not been there for me but my mum has?? also she started questioning me about the first dance 'father and bride' is she deliberatly trying to make me feel bad?? i dont know but it feels that way ?? waht do you guys think??
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CommentAuthorcharlotteverity
its up too you who gives you away. you are right plus it none of her bussiness who does it. my brother is giving me away as i dont speak to my dad. dont let her upset you hun .xx
CommentAuthormcewan07
i would stick with your mum, my grampa died jan 2010 but if he had been alive i would rather of had him than my dad.Not that my dad hasn't been their for me but my grampa was so much closer to me i owuld have felt it more right, as i am sure you do your mum. If i was you i would their for stick to who you feel more comfortable with, or have them both if you wanted to try and compromise?
CommentAuthor*D*a*n*n*i*
thanks girlies well i was going to ask my grandad but they have decided not to come which i have just started another discussion about lol. but my mum has been there since day one. i think she just picking at me a little bit at a time just because she grew up with parents togther and had a 'traditional' wedding doesnt mean i have to . she can organise her own daughters wedding!!
