i was told by the registrar its normally about 2 readings but if i have anything special in mind i can request it, not to sure with music though, i was sent a pack when i booked the registrar that has music we can use but it doesnt actually say how many peices of music i can have x

I think it depends on the registrar. I asked my county office and the following applies to us:

Everything has to be packed in 20 minutes - we can have 3 tunes and 1-2 readings depending on lentgh. There are zero religious connotations allowed and I think this is where it maybe differ regionally - we are not allowed to have any candles during the ceremony, not even for decoration. But I read from others here that it was fine to even have a unity candle ritual with their registrar - so best thing is to ring up and ask or drop them an e-mail!

the music is in japanese lol only i will be able to understand it :-) xx

Hello-Kitty I think they will ask you about the music and the lyrics.

i've got 3 songs and 2 readings which classed as a MODERN ceremony x