not sure what to do in regards with my son.... He will be 3 and half by the time we get married and i was wondering what other people did? Did you take the children with you or leave them at home with a relative? Or take a shorter honeymmon with just the two of you? My h2b thinks a honeymoon is just meant for the couple but i dont think i could leave my son for a week and just swan off abroad?? Not sure what to do!!! HELP!!
CommentAuthorLisaT18
i am not taking my daughter with me on my honeymoon. i dont want to go out of the country without my daughter as she is prone to accidents and i dont want anything to happen and me not be able to get back but i dont want to take her on my honeymoon so we have decided that me and my fiance will go away for a few days in the uk and leaver her with my mother in law. We are asking for money for wedding presants so we will use that to book a holiday abroad later in the year and take our daughter with us then. hope this helps =)
CommentAuthorsusan1990
we are leaving our son with my parents when we go on honeymoon he is 4, hes just started school so wouldnt want to take him out of school. we were origionally getting married on the 31st august but would have ment we would have missed his first day at school so we changed it. we are only going for a week but i personally think a honeymoon is for just a couple, it will be ther first holiday me and my oh will have been on on our own we have always been away with either family or friends never just the 2 of us so it will be a nice break especially as were going to an adults only hotel :) my firend has just got married and she has gone on honeymoon and took her 4 year old son with her and the whole holiday is mainly focused on activitys to entertain him x
CommentAuthorAmyP7
I think honeymoons are just about the couple. But then I'm not a parent yet, so things may have been different if I was x x
CommentAuthorDefinitelymaybe
We will be taking 3 of our children on a family moon a couple of months after the wedding. There is no one who can have them for that long so we will take them with us. Although my eldest will be almost 17 then so he may decide to stay at home yet.
Everyones circumstances are different so some will take kiddies and others won't. ALthough the honeymoon is meant to be about the couple traditions have changed slightly as more and more couples are having children before they marry. It is what every you want to do though and what ever your circumstances will allow I think. xx
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We are leaving my 9 year old son with relatives for our two week honeymoon abroad. As much as i actually HATE myself for leaving him and i just know there will be tears (on my part) i know a honeymoon is for a couple and its something we will never do ourselves again. The feeling that i will be leaving him at home makes me feel sick and guilty,but i cant expect my OH to let me take him as he is my sons stepdad too. My son will get away with us for a few days before we go too and will likely be going away for a caravan break of his own with my relatives.
CommentAuthorgeorgie
We're going to do 2 nights in a nice hotel as my boys will be 6 and 18 months then we will have a family holiday somewhere around school x
CommentAuthorTasha_Q2B
mmm still not sure what to do!! Still dont think i could go for a whole week without him, maybe do a long weekend or 5night break possibly?! I know i have someone who would have him for me, i know my family would not approve if i left him lol The joys of family stresses too!! x
CommentAuthorVelcro
My mums taking my daughter on holiday the same week we go on heneymoon, and then im arranging for either her dad or an auntie to have her the remainder of the time we are away. You only get a honeymoon once, so I don't see a propblem with not taking the kids as long as there is someone willing and trusting to mind them for you :)
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CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
We havent had a honeymoon yet and probably wont for a long time... However even though my parents paid most of the wedding they booked us a holiday too. They know I wouldnt be able to leave my children as even now when my sons almost four ive only been away from him on the night when ive had no choice ie hospital stays same wiht my daughter... As me and the children dont have passports they booked a holiday for the UK for next october... Since then we will be having another baby but the place they booked is big anyway... and I asked my parents to come so they can watch the kids whileme and my husband have some alone time! x
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CommentAuthorJo
i think it should be what u want, my little girl will be 4 and im thinking of having a weekend honeymoon then a family holiday so she doesn feel left out, but everyones different x
CommentAuthorNicholaP44
we r getting married abroad so we r using that as r honeymoon.. so my kids will b with me. Even if we wernt getting married abroad i think i wud prob take the kids with me. I guess if we went away 4 a weekend i wud leave them with my mum. but no longer than that as its not fair on her as they r so young and demanding. Its all about personal circumstances and situation hun. Entirely up 2 u and H2B. XX
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CommentAuthorRosyF77
if you leave him with someone he knows well and is close to then he should be ok. A weel is a long time but i would say go for a shorter one if your not happy to leave him rather than take him with you x
