My sister is my Chief Bridesmaid but she is really getting me down not getting married for 2 years but stressed out so much already.....my theme is white with pastel/ice cream colours having five bridesmaids in different colour pale yellow pale pink pale blue pale green and lilac but shes pissed at wearing yellow even tho she looks good in it aaaarggghh
Don't let her make ou feel bad, you need to say something now ir she'll behave like this throughout all the preps!! Be firm and tell her its not up to her and if she continues you'll rethink the decision of her being the cb! x
CommentAuthorGriff
It's not her decision she should be honoured to be your cheif bridesmaid not kicking up hell over her dress colour! xxx
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
cant she just wear a different colour and one of the other bms wear the yellow
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorSian''OCD''Holkham
Iv compromised with her and said she can wear white with yellow sash the only reason i picked yellow for her is cos her skin colouring is pefect whereas i dont think my other bms could pull it off its just so annoying cos she then drags my mum into it cant kick her out of the bridal party cos family is family if it was one of my mates and would tell them where to go but cant with her
See I really hate that, people being bossed around and pushed into decisions by parents and other demanding family members ggggrrrrrrr whos wedding is it anyway?!?!?!??!
CommentAuthorlittle_88
haha sian this is funny ur colour idea is just like mine my moh is wearing yellow too.. why not let her pick.. its only one colour if your having different colours does it matter??? i just let my moh and brides maids pick their colours was easy that way xx
CommentAuthorSian''OCD''Holkham
yea i might have to have a reshuffle but really pissed that its not for 2 years and already ppl think they can make me do things their way
my friend is making me wear pink which she knows I hate and would never choose but I have not said a word
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CommentAuthorSian''OCD''Holkham
see i think she got a touch of jealousy over everything as well you no like sister rivalry or something shes only 19 got no bloke and her new thing is going on about how she'd have her wedding makes me mad
just say if you really dont like it you can get me back on your wedding day but for now stop being so selfish and do this little thing for me.. its my wedding day and what i say goes.. (:
Yeah I would let her have her say because I know it's your day but I made sure all of my bridesmaids were comfortable as they have got to wear it all day!!
My BM's have dictated all through tbh but I'm BM for my best friend in October but I've doen everythin I have been asked to do.
