has anyone been cheated on as i would be intrested to know, im jsut being silly but again as you saw on my oter post need to get things of my cheast if you read "hekp me" post then you will understand why i feel so depressed but my h2b cheated on me 3 yrs ago im over it was hard but im fine but 2day his cosain came over and it got mentioned and its got 2 me now i dont want to hear i was stupid for taking him back or leave him cos i have took him back and weve never been better than we are now but im feeling really depressed and normally id let what he said go in 1 ear and out the other but not atm i cnt do that with anting please tell me im not the only 1 thats been cheated on and took them back

My ex cheated after 12 years of marriage and 2 kids and out the door he went!
When asked if we could talk his reply was 'why whats the point you'll never forgive or forget' He knows me so well!
Best thing he ever did in my opinion, as ive seen his true colours since and realise just what an a ss he is plus if he never left io wouldnt have met my h2b and we wouldnt have had our son

i been with myn since i was 14 and he knew it was a mistake but i feel really down anyway and when she got mentioned today he said something cnt even remember what but i snapped and i said was she nice decnet down in the feilds aww did u want her was she good in bed oh no she was 2 cheap and dirty 4 a bed did she cook nice food 4 u oh no i forgot she was jst a dirty lil ******* and he looked at his cosain as if to say here we go again but i feel bad for snapping but it hurts me yes i have forgiven him but it dont mean i want 2 hear about her am i bein 2 unreasonable i dont think it helsps that it was 3 years right about now and all the housing is depressing me so ths is added on

i cant talk to him cos i cry im very emotional and then he gets all funny and wont talk about it case it hurts me and he says you already know everything cos wen i found out (she lived oppiste us) i wanted 2 know everything how long were times how many times days night wat did she wear is she better looking u name it i asked him but i duno wat i want 2 do i lived on a luvly site and cos of HER we moved cos i could face her day in day out but i was happy there and im missrible in this house and it want something major he sed i think it was his cosain was on my him and his gf rowing and i said when did we last row and he said ages ago over her and we were watchin why did i get married too (good film) but the couple were getting divorced basicly and she started smashing everything up with golf clubs and i mean the table the tv her crystal ornimants and tom sed abi did that and i said yh and i fdo it agen then all the rest lol

he would do anything like that and we sice have 2 children together to prove he wouldno do it agen he doesnt go on msn or fbook anymore he doesny have a mobile phone i know he would do it agen but i feel so depressed all i want 2 di is cry 24/7 i have no friends only 1 and shes brill but i feel lke keep tellin her my probs is 2 much as i havent known her long but shes been through the same thing i was close 2 his sister but all of a sudden she doesnt ring or visit us anymore when she used 2 come to ours daily and ring at least once aday but glad in 1 way cos all shes ever done is lie 2 us we found out but still hurts 2 fink i did trust her

no i have warned him i wouldnt take him back :'( now busted into tears reading and writing this i wasnt going to the 1st time i put my self in hospital over him with a od i was living with him and his mam rushed me in2 hosptial in 1 way i regret od cos it showed it hurt me but i dod do sum damage we were livin in a trailer (caravan) and i smashed it u and everything in it cos i thought he was going to give it to her i collect waterford crystal, coalport dolls and royal crown derby i had £1000s worth and i took it outside and smashed it up the floor if u want him have him but u want have my ****** stuff n all as i came round he was sat at my bedside cryi and begged for me back i stad strong and said no but his mam begged me to go home with her she said im on ur side not his ome home ill kick him out if i gta i wanna make sure ur ok i cudnt 4give myself if u stayed sumwerelse and ended up here agen (on about the hospital) so i did but i tld her he cud stay 2 but he stayed in r trailler i was in his mams challet we didntspea i cudnt even look at him if he came in2 the chellet 2 get a drink n i was in the kitchen id walk out then one night when his mam went out after asking me 100 times if id be ok i went and had a bath and i locked the doo and he sat the ther side saying im sorry i never ment to hurt you i love u and no1 else she was a cheap lil tart who ment nothing plese i no u cant forgive bt please talk 2 me and let me knowur ok u scared me i thoughtid lost u wen u od not like now when i can still c u he said i thought id be visiting u grave and i wanted 2 kill myself 2 bring u bk but please tell me ur ok and ill leave u and me mam alone and i gt out the bath n opend the door 2 c him n there was the man i loved and i sed i luvd him but he hurt me and he promised never to hurt me again so i took him back and that night he got his mobile phone and smashed it up with a hammer and set the sim card alight and 2 this day hes never had another fone and the girl hu he cheated with came out and he said straight 2 me im sorry but tht was a cheap **** and that was all i will tell u the truth she did no abwt u i tld her fm day oe and the next day he went and brought me a new trailer even better than the 1 b4 and replaced everything i had in it and more but i swear and he nos if it happend again id pack up and go i wudnt say where but he wudnt have chance 2 explain and as soon as the children were old enoughid tell them everything and do belive he wudnt risk looseing the children even if he falls out of love with me 1day down the line he would always do whats right for the children hes a gr8 dad

my daughters 20 mnths and my son 4mnths and i spoke 2 my gp and shes rote me lots of letters to the council about that there a piccy on my wall and a post called help me wont bore you with it on here but she reakons thats she can understand why im upset let alone pnd and i dont know y i wanted 2 know but i felt lke i needed 2

my tomboy hasnt hit me but i hsve days where i get upset over it other days im fine

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for about 10 years - my ex was an alcoholic and very possessive and controlling. My life was hell and I was too scared to get out. Then one day I snapped and told him enough was enough and I wanted him to leave. 8 months later I met Mark and have never looked back :-)

aw hun i didnt want to read and run and i really not sure what to say i had an ex who thought it was ok to go kiss someone else even though he with me as it wasnt cheating on me it was just a kiss! Which tbh honest is a load of rubbish and that upset me and we split which was the best thing i did as he wasnt a nice person looking back but if your h2b is a lot better now and proving it then thats good x you will still have doubts and yes it will probably get you down sometimes (especially with all thats going on atm which i hope you manage to get sorted soon!!) but as long as he is with you and showing that he has changed thats a good thing xxx i know that probably didnt make sense reading it back it doesnt but i cant put it any other way that will

big hugs hunni xxxxxx

Sorry you feel like this..and I think it's understandable. I have not been cheated on (to my knowledge!) but it happened to a very close friend of mine who has just got married. It took them a long time to get through it but I think their relationship is genuinely stronger for having gone through it. I think part of that is because she was serious about walking if it happened again and he realised how close he had come to losing her.

my ex cheated on me throughout my 3 1/2 yr relationship with him he had 3 children with 3 other women during that time and i would never have considered taking him bk i didnt know he was cheating until during my daughter christening he kept disappearing and i then demanded to know what was so important and she was in labour and he was being called by her to get to the hospital!

i dont believe you can move forward if you take a step back but thats my personal opinion! i dont want to upset any1 xx

Mine was other way round i cheated on him but thankfully he forgave me and never mentions it i would never do it again i realised the grass isnt greener on the other side. I hope you can work though it hun xx