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    • Nikki.S.
      CommentAuthorNikki.S.
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    Just found out my fiance, the man i was due to marry next year is a CHEAT and has been carrying on with MORE THAN ONE GIRL


    :'(
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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    ohhhh hun im so sorry

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    • MrsMelodyWalker
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    OMG!! What a bastard. Excuse my language :-( I'm so sorry hun! I know it doesnt make it better but at least you found out now and not when you were married. Now is your chance to find the real man for you! x x x

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    • Nikki.S.
      CommentAuthorNikki.S.
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    Soo heartbroken and angry. How could he lie to my face and do this behind my back. Worst thing is the 2 girls i know about are girls on his army camp and in the week he was with them and every weekend came home to me .. how can anyone be so heartless?
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    • MrsMelodyWalker
      CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
     
    That's cruel. You are better off without someone like that hun! x

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    • MrsDadson :0)
      CommentAuthorMrsDadson :0)
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    Ah hun, hes not a real man and so doesnt deserve your tears, you are better off without him, keep your head up and stay strong. Sending big (((((hugs))))) xx
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    • ClareS
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    Nikki I'm so sorry, sending you lots of big hugs xxx
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    • MrsH2B
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    Awww hun im sorry. That man aint worth you at all. The right man is waiting for u to dump this moron. Hugs xxx

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    • Trish Goddard
      CommentAuthorTrish Goddard
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    omg....so sorry mate.. move on and find a real man.. xx
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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That is horrendous!!!!! I feel so terrible for you! Keep your chin up! You are worth a million of him and he doesnt deserve you!!!!!!!

    I hope you get things sorted for yourself and feel better about it all sooon!!!!

    Huge mahooosive hugs to you hun!!! Be strong!


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    • Enny
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    like the other girls said already he isnt worth to shead a tear for this guy... u deserve better hun!!! the right man is out there somewhere for u u just have to find him!!!!
    be strong!!!
    sending lots of love, hugs from crawley xxxxxx
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    • Mrs*Maria*Louise
      CommentAuthorMrs*Maria*Louise
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    aww hun, im so sorry no woman deserves to go through that, hes an a** and no way does he deserve you, big hugs hun xxx

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    • TotallyLovedUp
      CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
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    oh huni am so sorry!!! agree with the girls, he so doesnt deserve you! thank goodness you found out before you married that scumbag! big hugs huni xxx
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    • jodie b
      CommentAuthorjodie b
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    what and **** so sorry your going through this xx

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    • Jill
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    So sorry to hear that hun, what an a$$ xxxx

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    • Maggielou
      CommentAuthorMaggielou
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    Oh no :( why do boys do that? My friend found out 4 weeks after her wedding he'd been cheating all along :( sending big hugs xxx




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    • BarbieBride
      CommentAuthorBarbieBride
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    Oh no, I'm so so sorry to hear this. I hope you are doing ok xx
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    • lollilou
      CommentAuthorlollilou
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    Thats awful,really feel for you. Don't stop coming on here we're all here to support you.xx
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
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    Oh hun hope you ok. I am so sorry. You are better of out of there if he is going to do that with you

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    • serine4andrew
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    omg thats awful, cant imagine what your going through right now :( so sorry, hes a scumbag and not worth a tear, chin up hun and stay strong xxxx

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    • MrsTacky2B
      CommentAuthorMrsTacky2B
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    aww sweet heart thats awful I know it doesnt feel like it but at least u found out now and not when your married. Take care and look after yourself xx

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    • madison_uk
      CommentAuthormadison_uk
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    what a shit!, at least you found out now, keep strong and you will find someone worthy to be your man, i hate cheats x




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    • Nikki.S.
      CommentAuthorNikki.S.
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    Thanks for all your lovely words girls. I can't believe hes done this to me. He was in afghanistan for 6 months and all we had was letters and a phonecall every now and then and all i done was sat and waited for him to come home. I really don't know how anyone can be so heartless and i am so glad i've found out now rather than nearer to/after the wedding.
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    • Gem1102
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    OMG! how terrible! I agree with the girls, you can do so much better! big hugs to you. xxx
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    • Flossie
      CommentAuthorFlossie
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    Keep your chin up......it may be a blessing in disguise, the right man for you is just around the corner and now you're free to find him. This other guy doesn't deserve your tears. x
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    • Officially Mrs M
      CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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    exactly Nikki, finding out now is much better but i don't know how he could do that to you!


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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    oh hun thats just so cruel! you deserve better you spent your time waiting for him and he shit on you from a great height!! disgrace

    hugeeeeeeee hugs keep ur chin up, hold your head high you have done everything right he should be walking with his head down in shame!! xx

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
      CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
     
    I'm so sorry to hear that he is a cheating rat bag but just remember that you are amazing and are better off without him. At least you found out what he is like before you got married. Things happen for a reason and at least now you can go out and meet a guy who will cherish you and look after you. I know it might not seem like it now but things will work out for the better.

    I was due to get married but called it off and I'm so glad I did because I would have been so unhappy yet now I know what real love is and I'm treated like a princess.




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    • Lisa Ramos
      CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
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    Really sorry to hear that, he is obviously a total scumbag and definitely doesn't deserve you xxx

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    • krisw86
      CommentAuthorkrisw86
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    he is a scumbag to do this to u. certainly dont deserve u! ur can do better than him!
    u'll find ur prince, dont worry xxx
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    • CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
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    oh no sorry 2 hear this hun awful news x
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    • mcquire81
      CommentAuthormcquire81
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    How awful for you... what a complete p***K!! You obviously deserve so much better and at least you have found out before you were married. I have no doubts you will meet someone who treats you as you deserve to be treated and will get your happy ending. Take comfort in the fact that people like your ex fiance who lie and cheat always get whats coming to them... karma is a great thing! Massive hugs to you xxx
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    • Ataraxia
      CommentAuthorAtaraxia
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    What a douche.

    You deserve so much better than someone like him, you'll find someone who will treat you right now he's out of your life!

    Good luck! xx

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    • Nikki.S.
      CommentAuthorNikki.S.
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    How after everything hes done to me do i stil love him with everything i have :( Wish i could just hate him which i do but get over him aswell but i got a feeling this is gonna take some time! x
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
      CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
     
    You can still love someone even if you hate what they have done. You can't just turn off your feelings because you find something out. Anyone that says they stop loving them straight away is a liar. They wouldn't get so angry and be so hurt if they didn't love them. It does take time to get over and its a shock but it will get better with time. x x




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    • xxhan87xx
      CommentAuthorxxhan87xx
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    So sorry for you hun what an ar$e you deserve much better x

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    • GregorysGirl
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    Oh hun, I am so sorry that he has done this to you. He doesn't deserve you and as you said, it is better to find out now than after the wedding. Now you are free to have a decent man to find you and love you in the way you deserve. But I know it must be hard as you still love him, and as much as you want to hate him you can't switch off the love you have had for this man for years. I hope you have people around you to be there to give you support and cuddles as it will be hard, but stay strong and don't let him walk over you, once a cheat always a cheat I think. Big hugs xxx

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    • Enny
      CommentAuthorEnny
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    nikki... xjox is right... even if some who u love dearly does something really awful u dont stop loving u only try to stop loving its hard it hurts and it is a long process!!! we are all here for u if u need us!!! big hugs xxx
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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    i know exactly how u feel hun i went with a squaddie and i was 12 weeks away from getting married i found out by a girl rining his fone and i answered and she asked who i was i telled her his wife 2 be and apparently he was leading a double life i couldnt beleive it i punched him right in the face and he did he a favor cos i would nt have met chris who treats me like a princess there will be some 1 else 4 u hun there always is and the way ur feeling now no 1 can take the heart ache away but u seem so go in 2 mode thinking omg is there some 1 else yes there will be and u will be his princess

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    • CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
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    aww hunni, i hope he knows what he has lost! his loss at end of day and u can do sooooooo much better and deserve better too hun, he will get his payback! karma will bite him in the backside!

    hugs x x
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    • Jilly17
      CommentAuthorJilly17
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    What an idiot! You deserve so much better than to be treated like that! xx
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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    chin up xx

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    • Linzie Liverpool.
      CommentAuthorLinzie Liverpool.
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    hope ur ok. xxxxxx
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    • Kazza
      CommentAuthorKazza
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    What a horrible thing to do. I hope you go on to find the man you deserve. xx
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    • lil miss sunshine
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    • Unknown
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    so sorry to hear this. what a horrible stupid man for doing this to you! you deserve so much more. xx




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    • MrsL2Be
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    So sorry hun can't imagine what your going through hun... Hugs xx
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    • CowChop
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    I'm so sorry hun... what a bastard! x

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    • Liz3yy
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    What on earth?! so sorry hun

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    • Foxyroadie
      CommentAuthorFoxyroadie
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    Huge hugs to you hun - give yourself time to grieve and as much as it doesn't seem like it now the pain will pass and as the other ladies have said, the man (and I use that word advisedly as this one clearly wasn't) for you will turn up when you least expect it :) Hold your head up, chuck, and believe you've had a lucky escape.. :(
 

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