is anyone worried that when they get married things will change between you and your partner?
CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
i cant say i am but we have been together almost 6 yrs, we have lived together for 3yrs and have kids, so its not going to be any different apart from i will be Mrs Fisher instead of Miss Dear lol, but i can understand how people would worry about it, but if u love each other enough to be getting married in the first place i wouldnt worry to much xxx
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
i dont think very much will change between me and h2b once married been together nearly 7years and have been living together for around 4years 2years of which in our own home. xxx
CommentAuthorteamelnaaqib
Weve been together for 3 years and lived together that long too, we have 1 boy. Also well done with your weding plans only 130 quid left to pay and 19 dyas to go. bet your excited fairytale x
CommentAuthorteamelnaaqib
If he gets all territorial on my ass though I know it will push us apart.
From somone who is married and as been for 9 months now, nothing has really changed since we got married except for my surname. xx
26th December 2007 - the day I met my special man
8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
24th July 2010 - the day I felt beautiful inside and out and
became Mrs Dickie for life. xx
CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
yeah i am getting excited now and starting to get the nervous as well lol, yeah defo pleased thats all we have left, my mum and MIL2B still need to pay abit but thats all in hand as well xx
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Mmmm...
Before getting married: We lived hundreds of miles apart We lived in the UK Communication by text/facebook/phone calls Saw each other every few weeks No real responsibilities
After marriage Live together In Germany See each other most days Communication in person Baby due in 7 weeks
So pretty major lifestyle changes. And everyday are relationshop gets better and we love each other more.
However- be aware of Post wedding depression- it helps to have another major project or something to look forward to.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorLaticschick Holland
don't think it will change that much, think it will just with comfort re bills/problems i.e work etc. For example if anything happened to me at work h2b doesn't get owt but will if he is my hubby
CommentAuthorPeaseblossom
I don't think it will change much for us, we already act like an old married couple, have lived together for 2 years, have a mortgage and 2 cats.
CommentAuthorteamelnaaqib
Thanks all. Weve been living like were married from day one. Share bills, money etc. I just meant emotionally. I really hope we dont take each other for granted also. I'm hoping it will inspire us romantically and we will both make an effort x
CommentAuthorteamelnaaqib
Cant wait ot have his surname though Tressa El Naaqib has such a ring to it for me!
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
I don't know how much of it is down to be married and how much to actually getting to be together more often (and indeed how much is down to becomin parents) but I defintely feel our relationship is stronger.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorteamelnaaqib
Great Mrs Pidgeon I feel alot more confident. I was concentrating on what could go wrong but actually it will make us stronger. Thanks x