I am getting married next August - 31st - but am having trouble deciding who is giving me away.
My dad died 9 years ago so therefore I now need to decide who is giving me away but I cant decide between my brother and my uncle! I want them both to do it but not sure if it would look silly and whether its appropriate? Its not even a decision I want to make but I have to make my mind up as it has a bearing on how many suits we need and we cant sort the suits out until this is sorted out!
Any thoughts would be great!
Kerry xx
CommentAuthorweemindyxx
hey remember it is YOUR WEDDING if is was you i would have them both they both obviously mean a lot to you, go for it, my brothers friend got married last year and he couldnt decide on who to have so he had two best men, go for it Kerry i think it would be lovely.xxx
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CommentAuthorPinky1985
Hey hun! I am having both my dad and my 91 year old grand dad give me away! Its niether silly nor unapproriate! Remember its your wedding so you can have what YOU like xxx
CommentAuthormadison_uk
have both wont look silly just make sure you have enough room up the aisle lol
CommentAuthorYourFirstDanceBride
Go for it. Like madison_uk says though, make sure there is enough room as you don't want to be squashed and bumping into each other. I think its a lovely idea though.
It sounds lovely having both of them. I had to decide who was going to give me away as lost my dad last year but it was easy for me to decide on who have chosen my uncle as only have the one and I cannot stand my brother.
CommentAuthorMrs Alsbetty
of course you can! my friend had her dad and her mum giver her away. i asked my mum to with my dad but she said that is my dads honour to do it, mum was my witness instead
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CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Do what ever you want hun, if you want them both there to give you away then go for it, it's your wedding, your way.
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthormrssmith2b
im having my step dad and my brother giving me away :) x
CommentAuthorKayteeG
Have both! There's no reason why not - lots of people have 2 people give them away x
CommentAuthorJellybabylin
i think it's lovely that there are two men so special to you that you want them both to give you away.....go for it x
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
your brother cud walk u up aisle then ure uncle takes ure hand as u walk past ;ast chair and takes u to ure hubby?
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CommentAuthorMrs Henderson-Parish
Thanks ladies!I suppose im just putting off making any decision about it at all but I do really want them both to do it!Just need to check the width of the aisle now or work around it somehow!!
Xxx
CommentAuthorFaye x
I really wanted my 12 year old son to give me away. Its my second marriage and my son and daughters adore my h2b as there real father wont have anything to do with them. Didnt want to upset my dad though, even though i know he would understand so im having them both give me away. The venue is just making the aisle a bit longer :) x x
CommentAuthorjanetx71
what about your mum could you ask her ???? if not then i dont see thats an issue to have 2 people give you away its quite common now for both parents to give their child away and anyway its your day so you get to decide what you want hun xxxxx
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
if i were you id go for both as they both obviously mean a lot to you xx if i could have my way id have my dad and my gramps but i think it would cause problems with my mums dad (might not but i dont want him feeling left out!) x do it your way!! xxx
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CommentAuthorVicky
i think its a really nice idea for them both to give you away xx
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
I'm sure you can have more than one person give you away, after it's your wedding. Do what you want x
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
do exactly what you want babe it is your wedding ......My 26yr old son will be walking me in and yes i did make sure that was ok with my dad ..... but i have asked dad to make the speech as my son is quite shy
I'm not having anyone give me away, anyone questions that and they'll be uninvited!
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthorTinsel
I think it is lovely to have both. Be brave and do what's in your heart x
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CommentAuthorJLR
I am doing something similar and I like Becky idea. My dad is 77 and registered blind so not very comfy walking down the aisle infront of everybody, so we have agreed that my son will walk me down the aisle but then my dad will be at the bottom to take my hand and do the actual giving away, you could do something similar in having your brother walk you down the aisle and then your unlce taking your hand and doing the giving away bit. x x
