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    • lisajg
      CommentAuthorlisajg
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    Hi I'm in a bit of a panic. A friend told me last night that it is unlucky to buy your own garter and I have bought mine! Is this true? I'm not normally that superstitious but I'm worried now!
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    • MrsTacky2B
      CommentAuthorMrsTacky2B
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    omg didnt even know about that i have bought my own as well !!! could i not get someone to wear it then it would be something old lol !!!

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    • Kat
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    I didnt know that but I've bought my own so I hope it's not true!

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    • CommentAuthorKerrylmac
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    I bought my own one too then a friend of mine also told me it was bad luck to buy your own. i looked it up and nowhere did it say this was bad luck, i looked at loads of other superstitions (boy there are a lot) but there was nothing about this being bad luck so i think we are safe ladies! ;-) xx
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    • MrsTacky2B
      CommentAuthorMrsTacky2B
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    i will not be googling superstitions as i will probably scare myself lol !!!

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    • lisajg
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    I'm glad I'm not the only person that didn't know! I'm sure we'll all be fine. I guess there are no statistics out there for Brides who bought their own garter and then had bad luck.
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    • Kaya
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    I bought my own, and we're fine so far ;-)
    My nan originally bought mine but when we got it out the packet the material was unbearable and my nan said I couldnt wear it! lol x

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    • Abbey
      CommentAuthorAbbey
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    I was going to buy mine too until my Mum said it was bad luck, so she bought it. At the time i did think she just wanted to buy me something as everything in the shop was gorgeous and the garter was the cheapest thing i looked at! Hee hee!! x

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    • Jane
      CommentAuthorJane
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    it's ment to come from a happly married woman, but how many do you know ? i bought mine as well as do many so i wouldn't worry

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    • Mel D
      CommentAuthorMel D
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    I think (as with most superstitions) that if you want to believe it, you can, but if not that's ok too. I bought my garter. my mum did offer me hers, but I saw it and it was horrible! I actually bought two - one ivory silk one, and a Chelsea one. I wore the Chelsea one as my "something blue" although the ivory one did have a blue bow on it, the Chelsea one was just to make Dan laugh - and it worked :-)

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    • lisajg
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    Thanks Ladies, I know you're right and just being stupid. I am just always on the lookout for a bargain and it was on sale in Debenhams. I'm sure it will all be fine!
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    • NishaVyas88
      CommentAuthorNishaVyas88
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    I bought my own. As for happily married women... there are only two I know- my MIL and my Step-MIL... neither of whom I'd feel comfortable asking to pay for my garter, or even consider asking about wedding lingerie. They're both quite easygoing but I'm certainly not, haha.

    Mine is beautiful and I can't wait to wear it.
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    • pennieb-MrsRiley
      CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
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    I had every intention of buying my own - until my MOH told me earlier that she had already been scouting them and that she was planning on buying it for me :) But even if it had been "bad luck", it wouldn't have bothered me!

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    • clewsy
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    i bought my own . as i don't like to follow tradtional anywayxx
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    • Enny
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    bought my own :) coz i like it :D
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    • suzky123
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    i didnt know that.... i have brought my own too so at least we will all have bad luck together.

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    • nickers
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    never heard of that but i bought my own lol and im married now lol x

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    • alanafx
      CommentAuthoralanafx
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    its tradition for a happily married woman to buy you it but ive never heard of it being unlucky to buy your own xx

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    • Laticschick Holland
      CommentAuthorLaticschick Holland
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    never heard of this one to be honest, my mum has bought mine though. she has bought all my underwear for me
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    • kimmy
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    Im sure we have all bought are own garters, ive never heard of this before, you will be fine hun!!
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    • Lofty
      CommentAuthorLofty
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    I'd never heard of this tradition but I plan on buying my own, that way I get to choose it!

    Does anyone know why we wear garters? I just know that it is tradition!

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    • CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
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    I'm looking for a newcastle one as everything else thats been done is by me so i need something for him.. lol.. I intend on buying my own.. :D
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    • WeeMintyMonkie
      CommentAuthorWeeMintyMonkie
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    I havet heard that you cant buy your own garter but my mum bought me mine!

    xxx
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    • mummy2Olivia_Lisa
      CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
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    i bought my own and the whole day went to pot lmao............. bugger

    oh well cnt say ive heard of it being bad luck tho x

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    • lisajg
      CommentAuthorlisajg
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    Oh well it sounds like a lot of us are in it together if it is bad luck. I wasn't going to have one but needed my something blue and spotted it in the sale. Thanks to you all for your replies!
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    • nicole85
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    Mrs Miller 2B ive put a link on your wall for a newcastle garter x

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