We're saving on a wedding breakfast getting married @ 12, photos then got Buffett, speeches etc then when evening guests arrive candy Buffett, choc fountain and cold Buffett, we saved on flowers, car is free a friends, were staying at mine the night before and I have a mobile hairdresser who I've known for years, I'm doing my own makeup, we had the venue half price as my hubby knows the owners, my Richard designs veil is gorgeous its 72inch with crystals I had it for a steal 60-172 lol my tiara was 15-90 Amanda wyatt shop was closing also had ring cushion and garter from there for 15! My dress was off the peg too so saved 500! The suits were buy 4 get one free! The photographer is 300 half the price with an unedited cd so were going to do our own wedding album. Were not bothering with a videographer, were having a decoration package too x
CommentAuthorThe-Future-Mrs-B
Loving the deals Fern
CommentAuthorFernP61
Thanks the-future-mrs-bowsk just goes to show you don't have to go over board things that you can keep are worth more x
CommentAuthorCharlieBe-Cool
Wow you ladies are thrifty lol! Think ours will come in about £15k all in, although hoping I can find some bargains :-)
Met my prince charming - May 2002
Finally tying the knot - July 2015
Where there is love there is life - Muhatma Ghandi
CommentAuthorSusie
The dress - £0-£700 max budget The shoes - £0.99 Bay of E The Kilt - £0.00 He already owns it Bridesmaids dresses - £36 each (x 2) Best man - £0.00 owns own kilt Hair and make up - £80 total Flowers - £ 100.00 inclusive of bouquet, button holes and table centers Cake- £30 to make ourselves Invites - £60 Ceremony -£300 including ceremony venue, reception venue and wedding licence Transport - £Free Photographer - £595 full day Reception - £1000 food budget Drink: £250 champange and wine for tables Dj/ band - £650 Favours - £40 How many guests -100 day, 200 night What day - midweek / weekend: Saturday Other costs??? Reception decorations: £100 Honeymoon: £1000 budget max Total: £4977.99 approx HOPEFULLY we wont go over that.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorSusie
I was so happy when bidding ended and I had won them. I jumped up and down and squeaked like a kid! lol
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
you got a pic of siad shoes??
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthor~Beauty&TheBeast2Be~
edited
Soo farrr
Venue - £2800 for 60 people, including meal, dj, drinks and ceremony. Dress - Up to £220 including postage Shoes - £20 Simple pair of kitten heels Decor - £20 so far. Very DIY. Created own place markers from clay. Own ring cushion from materials. Own cake toppers from clay. Own wish tree made from branches and painted. Transport - £70 - Just paying petrol as it's coming from Birmingham down to Somerset and back. The man is a good friend and colleague of my dad so he's letting us use his big green open top vintage bus for free! Photography - Unsure on prices yet, but it's a good friend's son, so will be doing us a great deal. Engagement Ring - Free. It was my mothers. So an heirloom. Rings - Ebay job so unsure yet. Not going for expensive material no point. Favours - £45 - Jars saved from pasta sauces, baby jars ect, filled with sweets and old material tops, twined wrapped around and hand made Eat Me tags from the cardboard toilet rolls. Main price is the sweets. Also Bird place makers are clay and people can take them home as well, to act as paper weights. Bridesmaid - Up to £30 each, so a maximum of £150 for the 5. Flowergirls - Up to £20 each, so a maximum of £40. Page Boys - As above - £40 Ushers/Groomsmen - Prim@rk job for suits - So again up to £30 each. Groom's Suit - No sure yet. Flowers - Doing my own so will be buying stems. Maximum of £50. Bouquet - A rose bouquet from Asd@, add a few gerberas - maximum of £15. Other costs- Splurge really, - Butterfly release - £120 Maybe a tiara not sure yet.
Amount of guests - 60 Day - Saturday Month- 30th May - 1 day later and the price would of almost doubled!
So Far: £3,620
Massive bargain hunter here, so will try and get everything reduced. Also have entered tons of competitions to get as much as i can for nothing. Will not take anything at the price they say at first, i will get it down!
Plus we are rather lucky, future FIL also wants to be involved and has thrust a £1000 onto us. So we will only be paying £2,620 so far.
*..Embrace Your Dreams..*
~We're All Mad Here~
CommentAuthorFernP61
Some good deals there Lauren x
CommentAuthorSusie
Yep Lana, just uploaded them to my pix :) FABULOUS deals going on there Lauren, well done!!!
CommentAuthorThe-Future-Mrs-B
They're looking good susie, I've added a post to your wall next to the dress link :)
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Bump
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorRennie1989
The dress - £1000 The shoes - £28 The suit - £100 (I think) Bridesmaids dresses - £100? (Unsure - cost of material and plans) Flower girl/s - £Included above Best man/ ushers - £100 Hair and make up - £110 for me, £25 x 3, £15 and £5 (£205) Flowers - £170 Cake- £50 (cost of ingrediants) Invites - £35 Ceremony -£<100 Transport - £200 Photographer - None Videographer? - None Reception - £>400 Dj/ band - £225 Favours - £10 How many guests - 35 for ceremony and additional 25 for reception What day - Monday Other costs??? Honeymoon - £1200 Catering - £2000 Gifts - £100
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Are you not having a photographer Rennie?
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
Not bad Rennie :)
Met in 2009
Got together on12th May 2011, proposed on the 12th May 2013
When you get knocked down; smile and pick yourself up again!
Fight for what you believe in!
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
Oh and great going Lauren; how did you get a venue that cheap?
Met in 2009
Got together on12th May 2011, proposed on the 12th May 2013
When you get knocked down; smile and pick yourself up again!
Fight for what you believe in!
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Bump
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorVelcro
My venue is costing an arm and a leg and were supposed to be on a budget lol
Wibbly wobbly, timey wimey
*Kelbel* is my wedding twinny!
CommentAuthorMrsK2b
Wow you ladies have done really well you should all be proud of yourselves.
Ours have cost £25k
Cant wait until I become Mrs K
CommentAuthorValentinaK
Dress/bolero -£1400 (splurge) Grooms outfit - FREE! (Uniform) Venue - FREE! Flowers - £200 artificial all done by moi! Table centres - £6 / table (made by me!) - £80 total Rings - His £200, mine £1500 Catering and wine (120-140 guests)£6000 Band - £1000 max Car - £500 Photographer - £1350 Favours - £130 (cost of raw materials like jars and sugar - other than that home produced honey and rhubarb and ginger jam and sugared almond trios) Cake - FREE! Made by aunty Hair and Beauty FULL works (part of pre honeymoon stuff) -£300 Tiara and veil £300 Bridesmaids x 4 (inc shoes!)- £900 Ushers and dad's outfits - £500 Stationery - FREE - (Printed by a client of mum's! The StDs were emailed!) Gifts - £100 Shoes £20 Honeymoon £2000
Guests, 120 day 140 evening (both have very large families) Saturday 31st May 2014
Been paying some things as we go on a payment scheme, and mum and dad are paying for the reception, my dress, 1/2 the car cost and the bridesmaids.
H2Bs mum and step dad have paid for the honeymoon.
We're still under £20k which is good!
And we lived happily ever after!
CommentAuthorsarah
bump AnnF53
CommentAuthorMrsCS2b
This is the rough draft of our budget so far, will probably end up nothing like this though as I have a tendancy to buy stuff without checking if we can afford it first. Hoping to spend £7000 max.
The dress - Was down for £500 max, won it on here in June - now £0 The shoes - £50 The suit - £100 (buying) Bridesmaids dresses - £100 each *2 Best man/ ushers - Prob buy it about £75, may get him to pay half Hair and make up - not though bout it yet...oops! Flowers - £150 (foam or real touch) Cake- Included in wedding package, will prob pay upto an extra £100 to upgrade from the basic one tho Invites - £100 (all DIY) Ceremony -£600, church service, includes organist, bells etc., booked Transport - £300 Photographer - £495, booked Videographer? - undecided if we want one. Reception - £3499 Dj/ band - included with reception Favours - £150 including a candy bar How many guests -47 day and 80 for evening What day - Saturday Other costs??? - approx £800 to cover rings, sons suit, general decoration and gifts etc
Total so far £6621 :)
First met 01-08-1996
Together since 02-08-1996
Getting hitched 15-08-2015
CommentAuthorFernP61
Ours has changed slightly due to getting another dress its coating a but but it's worth it and I know I will get a good amount back from it! Plus mil2b has gifted us 1k towards wedding so that's going on the food, I've still to decide what gifts to get my two bms and three fgirls we have 6 children in the day and I'm doing them goodie bags to keep them entertained ill also put in sweets etc x
CommentAuthorFreyaA
I feel doubly good about our budget now! Even though its still alot of money to us I think its worth it.
dress: free, my mums one viel: £20 bay of e Indian stylr headdress: £20 bay of e grooms outfit: £200 so far but need shoes invites: £30 Cake: free, aunty is making it for us fingers crossed its nice! Venue: £1600 for marquee including tables and chairs and lighting etc buffet and booze: £1500 Photographer: 700 Videographer: won! So free! Church with bell ringers: £700 Bridesmaids dresses: 1 human @ £30 1 dog @ £20! Bay of e ushers: £20 again dogs lol cos im mad Favours: £300 but its a big pick and mix stand so people choose their own and stuff their face!
decorations: £150 made by me including fair ground stalls, guest book, centre pieces, games and prizes, flowers from my garden and silly signs everywhere
madly this has come in at just shy of £6000, I cant believe it. I was hoping more 4000. Luckily my mum and grandparents are helping out a huge amount. I already owe them everything, I guess they now own my afterlife as well! Very very lucky and grateful to have such a kind family.
Feeling very humbled by this break down of costs.
CommentAuthorsarah
bump for indecisivebride
CommentAuthorsarah
bump for PhillippaP80
CommentAuthorChristinaB38
any recommendations on how to get the price of invites down? if DIY any tips?
CommentAuthorFernP61
christinaB38 mine cost around £35 to make that includede card envelopes, gems and ribbon for the side i made 40 day and 70 evening invites although the eve were extra x
CommentAuthorLauraT41
I got my invitations printed and personalised from bay of E for £40 for 30 day time and 40 evening - I brought some diamantes and added some more detail to them, everyone has said how lovely they are xx
CommentAuthorHelenW
Mine are costing about £40 to make. Including all card, ribbon, ink and stamps, inserts and envelopes etc - just need to make them now! xx
"Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary
life, love gives us a fairy tale"
CommentAuthorMrsCS2b
Mine will come in at around £70, that's for 20 day and 20 more for the evening plus save the dates x
First met 01-08-1996
Together since 02-08-1996
Getting hitched 15-08-2015
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Mine will cost no more than £50 for all invites and everything, 40 day, 40 evening, im thinking im gona do blue glutter glue around the main body of tardis and put a couple crysal me bobs in the lantern/light on top!
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorsarah
bump for Cassie29
CommentAuthorsarah
bump for MrsH-2B
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
edited
this is mine so far
The dress - £760 (mum paying) prob 850 wil alterations The shoes - 60 The suit - £110 Bridesmaids dresses - NA Bms paying for material and mum making Groomsmen - £80each X 3 (hoping inlaws will pay for half and groomsmen will pay for other half) Hair and make up - est £100 for all Flowers - £ 250 inclusive of bouquet, button holes and table centers Cake- £250 Invites /std- £100 Ceremony - included with ceremony venue, reception venue and wedding licence Transport - £250max Photographer - £450-550 full day Reception - £4500 -3 course meal, welcome drink, dinner drink, toasting drink, dj, decs Drink: extra top up max £150 Dj/ band - £650-700 Favours - £50 How many guests -90 day, 150 night What day - midweek / weekend: tuesday Other costs??? Reception decorations: £450 total so far for us : £7410
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorFernP61
Mine are. Dress £850/shoes £19/ side tiara £45/ veil £60/ accessories £ 60/ x2 bridesmaids dresses x270/ hair x3 £100/ transport £0/ church £400/ suits £350 x 5/ flowers everything £400/ rings 1k/ decorations £250/ gifts £150/ fgirl dresses and accessories £ 150/ makeup nails etc/ £120/ venue total £1200/ drinks on arrival and wine in table £150/ honeymoon undecided as yet but budgeted £1000-1300/ photographer £300 grooms transport £0
CommentAuthorFernP61
Forgot to add choc fountain £249 plus cake £170 plus 70 Mini cupcakes £35 and order of services £20 x
CommentAuthorTasha808
Hi, Some really good bargains here! I was wondering from those of you who got flowers from The Bay of E who you got them from; I'm looking for artificial flowers and they are cheapest on there but so many different sellers and worried about the quality. Can anyone give me any suggestions at all?
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
im prob getting mine from a company i found on bay of e there making my river song bouquet thats in my pics and matching bm posies , button holes and a corsage and petals for my fg x
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorsarah
bump for KeiraH51
CommentAuthorMrsRobson2Be
Thankyou Sarah
CommentAuthorStephanieM71
So far - some projected cost, some actual The dress - £700 - half price in the sale The shoes - £20 max - won't see them under the dress its huge lol Tiara and jewellery £125 The suit - £100 Bridesmaids dresses - £40 each x4 Flower girl/s - £0 Best man/ ushers - paying for their own Hair and make up - £100 - mates rates thank goodness Flowers - £150 bay of e Cake- £100 a friend is making for cost Invites - £10 found some 'nice enough' ones in poundland and am glueing on some pearls Ceremony -£900 - god registrars charge a lot to come out lol Transport - £0 not planning on having it unless we suddenly have spare money Photographer - £899 Videographer? - £0 - not allowed :-( Reception - £3,538 Dj/ band - £290 Decorations - £591 including centrepieces, favours, candy buffet, chair covers, starlight backdrop, bay trees, wishing tree Gifts - £100 max Outdoor decorations - £50 diy decorated jars with candles and lights for trees and bushes Rings - we have no idea but don't want to scrimp on them as they are forever How many guests -55 day 110 evening What day - Saturday in August
We are hoping to get money instead of gifts so that we can afford a honeymoon somewhere nice
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Bumped for kate
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
bumped!
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorclairenina
I spent £64 on my dress, and £460 on the cake. What can I say? I love cake lol
CommentAuthorLisa clarke-soon-to-
thanks for bumping lana :) had a little nose, heres our rough budget, Dress £150 - £200 max shoes £20 suit £100 tiara £15 bm dresses x 2 unsure flowers - either making own or seeing florist friend hair £25 makeup free (sister) nails £20 invites making them ceremoney £382 + £55 booking fee £35 each license transport - dads sporty looking car lol photography asking uncle or friend reception/bar gift from MIL/FIL band asking uncle and his band - £50 ish reception decor £40 gifts £30-40 sweets for table £30 bubbles/pinatas for kids £30 centrepieces undecided yet rings £60-80 prob forgot something lol i left my wedding book at home with list in lol xx
CommentAuthorLisa clarke-soon-to-
we reckon we can get in around 1250 xx
CommentAuthorCatherineR
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Registrar fees: £474 Cathedral blessing: £420 Reception (includes hire, food, booze, buffet): £3,700 Ceilidh: £550 Photography: £995 Flowers: £70 (bought and made by us) Dresses: £406 & ? (my dress not bought but have £500 in the budget to accommodate) BM dresses: £190 Suits: £124 (best man is wearing military uniform, ushers in hire suits) Hair/Make-up: £150 (probably only budget for hair and do own make-up) Invite's & RSVP's: £10 (make ourselves) Cake: £20 (make ourselves and with family members) Rings: £80 (using family hierlooms so only need to re-size) Dress alterations: £200? (no idea what this will cost but have £200 in the budget for this!) Bridal accessories: £50 (includes veils, headgear, garters etc) Thank you gifts: £100 Insurance: £39 Honeymoon: £0 (present from best man) Honeymoon spending money: £200 Transport: £0 (using family cars as distance is so close) Order of Service booklets: £5 (make and print ourselves) Lingerie: £10 Decor: £20
Currently £7,892 but fluctuates until we've booked on everything!
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorLisa clarke-soon-to-
forgot cake - we buying 2 tiers and making 1 tier, decorating ourselves :)