Help me!!!! H2B and I decided that we want to wait until after our wedding before trying for baby number 2. I agreed... I had wanted to have had all of my children before turning 30 but I thought 31 wasnt bad if I fell pregnant quickly (28 just now). I've been getting right into wedding plans so wasnt thinking abotu it but I've suddenly become soooooo broody! Making myself worse by watching baby programmes but I cant help it. Cant even turn to my lifelong friend chocolate for some comfort as I'm off it while trying to lose weight for the wedding.
Hellish! x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorJoey
I am the same! Really really want one! h2b is the same but we are waiting until the wedding. My two friends at work have just had babies and its made it worse haha. We will just have to do some practising until then...... ;P
CommentAuthorJill
lol that's a plan! I just need to try and get past it but it's hard, esp when the knock on effect of me having my son was for all of my friends to gradually fall pregnant too, and one's pregnant again! It doesnt make sense to have another just now so I need to get it out of my head, it's just so difficult though lol x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorJoey
haha they do make you think - sod it, deal with the consequences :) But you want to be able to afford the wedding of you dreams and a baby would take some of the money. Thats what i keep telling myself anyway. plus my h2b keeps saying good things come to those who wait haha bless him
CommentAuthorJill
awww lol yeah best to wait... you could have a bubba by the time I get married though! x
We are going to try about a year after the wedding, my sister is really wanting another 1 but she's going to wait until after our wedding i've told her she doesn't have to but her hubby wants to go back to Vegas after our wedding so they are going to try after Vegas. we have about 9 friends that are all at different stages of pregnancy saw a new born last week which has really made me broody but i know with the wedding we don't have the finances for both just now.
CommentAuthorJoey
haha ohhh yes I could do! Now its getting closer,its very exciting! I made h2b watch one born every mintue last week. He was freaked at first but then got really into it haha. I dont think he had really thought about the birth bit til then haha poor sod. x
CommentAuthorserine4andrew
Haha im glad im not the only one it this boat!! i am as broody as hell!! ive already got 3 but my baby girl is just growing sooo fast... shes 3 in four weeks!!lol We have always dreamt of a large family, but have agreed to wait until after the wedding!! i too will be 31.... Its not a bad age... :) xxxx
This day i marry my friend, the one i laugh with, live for
dream with, love..... 14/07/2012
CommentAuthorJoey
nahh i will be 28 (hopefully) when I have my first so 31 is a great age! xx
CommentAuthorserine4andrew
My friend got married yesterday, they are now officially trying for their first baby.... arghhhh so cute :) xxx
This day i marry my friend, the one i laugh with, live for
dream with, love..... 14/07/2012
CommentAuthorJill
Ahhhh it makes it easier to know it's not just me! Claire we're the same - H2B had put it to me that we could have another baby but the wedding would need to be either delayed or downscaled. He was right of course but it didnt stem the urge lol x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
h2b is going to be 37 on our wedding day (its his birthday) and I'm going to be 32 this year and we have no kids between us yet. I'm so broody its unreal but we are also waiting until after the wedding. Last year it felt like an eternity away but this year has soon come around and it won't be long until we are married. What you have to think is its not just the lack of money for the wedding but a young baby can be very demanding. Do you want to be constantly worrying about the new born all the time? What about if you are breast feeding in your dress? Will you be able to get a dress that fits you as you may order one and then find it is way to big or small......
CommentAuthormitch2509
i cant wait to have a baby, like jo, i was broody last year and thought it would take foreva for this year to come, but it has come so quick, and im gonna start trying in a couple of months.... scary stuff !
CommentAuthorUnknown
i feel exactly the same but didnt want to read and run...sorry not much help i know xx
CommentAuthorxbeckix88
Feel excatly the same! Weve both agreed that we want to wait until after were married! im fine when i throw myself into wedding plans but programmes such as One Born Every Minute (last 1 tonight too :(!!) Reallly do not help in the slighest...plus i swear everyone i know on facebook at the mo is having babies! ARGG lol
CommentAuthorSteffie
I'm ultra broody but we are also waiting till after our wedding!
CommentAuthorsbride
Come and do a night shift with me tonight (i work on a maternity unit) you wont feel broody by the end of the shift, lol. I would wait hun, otherwise you could end up pregnant or with a very new born when its your wedding. Its nice to feel broody, will make you want the baby even more when u do have one.
