I don't really know how to react to how one of my bridesmaid has just sort of ... well had a go at me!

Like my last discussion suggested, I have been struggling with my table centrepieces and I thought I would get my bridesmaids involved. Don't get me wrong, I love how my bridesmaids get involved and they help me soooo much with a lot, but I don't know where this came from. I was speaking to my bridesmaid who was throwing ideas, left , right and centre at me and she started throwing ideas about everything else for the wedding. I felt like my head was going to explode! I said I wanted her to slow down a bit because I was with H2B not being around to give his opinion I felt a little blegh about planning a lot of it without him. She replied with it 'he's a man, he isn't bothered about stuff like that!' to which I replied that is was our day not my day and she said it was 100% my day! I just repeated myself saying I didn't think it was right and I needed to slow down.

She then started having a go at me saying I was being a bridezilla and what was my problem! I'm a bit confused that why is my bridesmaid having a go at me because my H2B is away! She now doesn't want to speak to me for some reason. What do I do? Advice please! x

i agree ignore her sounds like she had a maidsvilla moment.

Just ignore her
My oh is like how she said though he's not fussed he just wants to be married n not the wedding lol he's told me it's 'my day' so I'm like cheers babe haha
But just ignore her she'll cool down but this is what usually happens when you ask people for help they all of a sudden think they're your wedding planner xx

she sounds like a crazy maid ignore her hun xx

Agree with Velcro lol
You're lucky my h2b isn't really that bothered and just says ok to anything I say lol

omg lols, how are you being a bridezilla because you want your grooms opinion? a bridezilla would be like I don't care what he thinks.

Yep just ignore her; I strongly believe that it is your and his day; too many people tend to just focus on the bride:)

It sounds to me like she is jealous for what ever reason. Let it calm down and hopefully things will be back to normal x

It does sound like a case of the green eyed monster to me. I wonder if her ex husband was particularly involved in the planning.

Well, she did talk to me, but she seemed very distant. I didn't say anything about it because I thought there was no point in bringing it up. She's moving next weekend so I wont see her as much, which I duno if it will be an issue. x