I don't really know how to react to how one of my bridesmaid has just sort of ... well had a go at me!
Like my last discussion suggested, I have been struggling with my table centrepieces and I thought I would get my bridesmaids involved. Don't get me wrong, I love how my bridesmaids get involved and they help me soooo much with a lot, but I don't know where this came from. I was speaking to my bridesmaid who was throwing ideas, left , right and centre at me and she started throwing ideas about everything else for the wedding. I felt like my head was going to explode! I said I wanted her to slow down a bit because I was with H2B not being around to give his opinion I felt a little blegh about planning a lot of it without him. She replied with it 'he's a man, he isn't bothered about stuff like that!' to which I replied that is was our day not my day and she said it was 100% my day! I just repeated myself saying I didn't think it was right and I needed to slow down.
She then started having a go at me saying I was being a bridezilla and what was my problem! I'm a bit confused that why is my bridesmaid having a go at me because my H2B is away! She now doesn't want to speak to me for some reason. What do I do? Advice please! x
i agree ignore her sounds like she had a maidsvilla moment.
CommentAuthorCatherineR
Ignore her, clearly she thinks that she is getting married and wants to take over planning!! She doesn't sound worthy enough to be a bridesmaid..... Especially sulking like a child like that, how immature! xx
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
Just ignore her My oh is like how she said though he's not fussed he just wants to be married n not the wedding lol he's told me it's 'my day' so I'm like cheers babe haha But just ignore her she'll cool down but this is what usually happens when you ask people for help they all of a sudden think they're your wedding planner xx
How she can say your a bridezilla by not wanting to make any decision yet and slow down on everything I have no idea :/
CommentAuthorMrsThomson2B
she sounds like a crazy maid ignore her hun xx
CommentAuthorVelcro
Think she's accusing the wrong person of being a 'zilla' lol
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CommentAuthorLauraK7
Agree with Velcro lol You're lucky my h2b isn't really that bothered and just says ok to anything I say lol
CommentAuthorBethanyS
I'm not going to paint H2B as the type who wants to get involved 100%, but he specifically asked me to leave some things for us to do together when he gets home. I don't know it is because she was with her ex for over 2 years, had 2 children with him, they got married in April and then filed for divorce in November as he came stupidly protective over her and really horrible to her. I don't want to say she is jealous, but I feel there might be a little? X
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
omg lols, how are you being a bridezilla because you want your grooms opinion? a bridezilla would be like I don't care what he thinks.
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CommentAuthorMrsManiatt
like the others said, just ignore her, it is up to you and H2B what you want, let her strop and she'll soon realise whos wedding it is! xxx
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
Yep just ignore her; I strongly believe that it is your and his day; too many people tend to just focus on the bride:)
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CommentAuthorBethanyS
I've realised I am working with her tomorrow, so she cant really ignore me there can she! x
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
It sounds to me like she is jealous for what ever reason. Let it calm down and hopefully things will be back to normal x
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CommentAuthorLauraK7
hope today goes ok
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
It does sound like a case of the green eyed monster to me. I wonder if her ex husband was particularly involved in the planning.
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CommentAuthorAllishiaW
I'd say take it on the chin!! She probably didn't realise she was being abit over powering an obv when u told her to basically stop and it wasn't just about u,she didn't like it and had abit of a diva strop!! Take no notice x
CommentAuthorBethanyS
Well, she did talk to me, but she seemed very distant. I didn't say anything about it because I thought there was no point in bringing it up. She's moving next weekend so I wont see her as much, which I duno if it will be an issue. x
