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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Link on my wall that someone shared on the book. This is a real bridezilla.

    EDIT - THE EMAIL IS POSTED BELOW TO SAVE TO ALL HAVING TO FIND THE LINK - LALA

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    • Mrs M Wade
      CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Wow lol she really is a bridezilla x

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    • CommentAuthorMrsRobson2Be
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    PMSL that is hilarious!!
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    • Little Kettle
      CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
      Got married 9 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Woah, that's awful. I think if I'd got that letter, I'd not only be refusing to be a BM, but I'd be questioning whether I really wanted to be friends with her!

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    • ElizabethF49
      CommentAuthorElizabethF49
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    OMG i just don't get some people. I would never dream of writing something like that never mind send one.

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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
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    I know, there's no way I would count someone out just because they couldn't make my hen, let alone three parties. And I wouldn't expect them to spend a fortune.

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    • VictoriaL46
      CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Wow. The letter is just hysterical but 10 bridesmaids! Really? Originally I was planning 5 and brought it down to 3 and 5 seemed a lot to me.

    Yikes.

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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Wow! I'd be telling her where to stick her 'honour' if that was me. I think it is really unfair to remove someone as a bridesmaid if they couldn't make one party or didn't reply to her in her 1-3 day requirement...yes the wedding may be the most important thing on her mind but her bridesmaids have their own lives!

    Geez I know this was from last year but would be interesting to know how many of the ten said *£$%& that*. Plus expecting them to pay for their own dresses :S

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    What a bridezilla! Total nightmare, I'd be surprised if she had any bridesmaids after that letter.

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
      Got married 9 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    To my lovely Bridesmaid: [Names removed]

    As you all know I picked 10 wonderful ladies to stand by my side, share and make happen my special day to Jake. Each of you individually have a reason and a special place in my heart of why I picked you to be a bridesmaid. We have set our date for Saturday, August 31, 2013 in Vail, Colorado. That seems far away but it really isn’t, the earlier the planning the better. You may have already knew that my wonderful sister L— will be the Maid of Honor, she’s in charge under me. Also my lovely mom will be a big help as well. L— has a big role in throwing me a bridal shower and bachelorette party, of course all of you guys do but at the end of the day shes the go to person and makes it happen+Doe.
    You all have a big roll in this wedding, so before we continue I’m going to be setting some ground rules and its very important you read and think about everything through before you accept this honor to be a bridesmaid. If you guys email anything I would also like you to put L— in the CC. Not all the bridesmaid need to be CC’d unless its coming from me or L—, if it something everyone needs to see then well do it. We set the date to August 31, 2013 if that’s a problem we need to know NOW. Also by the end of the week we will be setting dates for the engagement party, bridal show and bachelorette party.
    Our wedding party is really the most important people at the wedding besides my self and Jake so we want every single one of our bridesmaid and grooms at our parties, I have 10 not 8 where two couldn’t make it so if you already know you cant make one of the parties then we have to find someone else, not to be harsh in the slightest it would sadden me and of course you’ll still be invited to our wedding, engagement ect. But it’s different if your not in the wedding party and couldn’t make it. We’ll give everyone well advance dates for the parties and it will always fall on a weekend. The wedding as I stated will be in Vail the engagement party will either be in NY or CT and the bachelorette party will be in Vegas, cliche yeaa but I’ve never been.
    A few girls live out of town so if there is going to be a problem with coming to either one then I need to know now because after this week I don’t want to be surprised. I would like everyone to send me any dates they are going away or planning to go away after February so if your going away in January I don’t care. I want any dates from February to the day of our wedding in August, that way we know not to plan something when your away. But after this week the dates are set in stone. Also if money is tight and you cant afford to contribute to say the bachelorette party or wont be able to afford a dress etc then L— and Myself don’t have time to deal with that, I’m sorry. This includes flights as well, everyone knows the states where the parties are going to be held so if you wont be able to afford a flight then that means you cant make a party which ultimately means I cant have you as a bridesmaid. Obviously we’ll get the best deals and were not gonna books flights for $1000 and shit that’s why were doing this in advance, that goes for bridesmaids dresses as well everything will be affordable but if you think by affordable its going to be a $25 forever 21 dress then your going to the wrong wedding.
    If your out of state though don’t think you have to fly in for all fittings, that we will work with you, find stores in your town, get measurements..you don’t have to worry about that. Also if you accept this honor another thing is that you need to be available, I’m not going to harass you with wedding stuff every hour of everyday but if its something important and it takes you a week even 2-3 days to get back to me seeeee ya! I don’t have time to wait around for responses, everyone has their phone on them, it shouldn’t take you more than a day to get back to me, even if your out of the country, check your email!
    Furthermore, Ever since I could remember I have dreamed about this day all my life. I want to share it with the people that are most important to me. You only get one time to plan your dream wedding and I couldn’t pick a more amazing group of girls to make that dream come true! So please, what’s stated above think about it all and by Wednesday I need to know if everyone is 100% in, and what I have asked about sending me dates if your gonna be away between Feb-Aug ill need that on Wednesday. If you don’t think you’ll be able to attend one party but can make the rest of them I’m sorry but I’ll have to take you out as a bridesmaid and put you as a guest. If you want to get back to me before Wednesday, that’s fine. Really think about everything I’ve said. This is really going to be the most epic wedding ever so I hope you girls can share this special day with us!
    Love,
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Do you think it was a joke? Surely no one would really send a letter like that?

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
      CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    Ha I love it , I may show it to my wedding crew and tell them at least I'm not that bad ! :)

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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jul 12th 2014
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    I've seen this loads floating around fb, if I got that email I'd tell her where to stick it!

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    • AlexN29
      CommentAuthorAlexN29
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    Haha I wouldn't even bother replying or going to the wedding.
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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
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      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    How many special friends has she got if she's happy to just replace someone? I'd be saying seeee yaaaa just like she has if they miss a date x

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
      CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
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    I read this out to H2B and he was shocked at the number of bridesmaids more than anything lol

    I can't remember if it the same bride but I have seen emails talking about permission for hairstyle changes and also weekly weigh in updates !

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    • Becky1608
      CommentAuthorBecky1608
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    Oh my goodness! She sounds absolutely horrific!
    I'm a little bit speechless yo be honest! Xxx

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    I remember my sister was a BM for a friend a few of weeks before our wedding and that girl was a totaly bridezilla. My sister as a joke said she may get pregnant and her face apparently just dropped lol. Bride dictated makeup, hair (which the BM's had to all pay for or do themselves), bought them nasty dresses which they all hated and then they had to pay for their own alterations as none of the dresses fitted them and showed far too much cleavage so the bride told them they had to alter it somehow to show less b00b.

    Bought them shoes which cut their feet .............they were not best pleased.

    Then they had to arrange their own transport to the church!

    I had a thread about it at the time because my sister and her friends were all so upset and angry.

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    • VictoriaL46
      CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    Yikes for your sister InD,

    If I treated any of my BMs like that they would be "Right, see ya!"

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    oh god, i remember that indreamland, she sounded like a nightmare!!1

    the ONLY thing i agree on in this email is her wanting to know everyones availability so she could plan the parties/fittings etc around them, but my god, what a b1tch. demanding that they spend all this money and if they cant afford to, sod off...lol AND having the cheek to expect them to buy their own dresses as well!

    Stuff that.

    I saw this the other day, apparently it was for a 2013 wedding? i wonder how it went. from what i read in the comments 7 of the girls agreed to the terms lol

    that's providing, of course, that this is a genuine email

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    Lol, I remember all the responses from everyone when I posted that thread. Everyone agreed she was unreasonable.

    I wonder if the 7 BM's who agreed the terms managed to stick to them. I feel sorry for the poor bloke who married her ..........

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 13th 2014
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    god i know, can you imagine the things he must have to put up with...!!!

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