Help, help, help, help, help! ..... My Step-daughter (2b) is expecting and has now said that she is unsure if she wants to be bridesmaid....baby due this May and wedding is June 2012, she says she realises how much time there is after the baby is born, but wont decide till the January b4 the wedding.....! What, ur kidding me right???....So ladies, my question is this....do i hang on and wait for her to make up her mind (only to probably dump on me in January) or do i tell her to forget it????? xx :0(

i would find somebody else, my moh is pregnant and due in may. im getting married in june but she still getting involved... well... sort of..