Please help, i have one pregnant bridesmaid who is due before the wedding which I didn't mind but iv now just found out that the second out of three us pregnant and will be 6 months gone I already have their dresses is it awful of me to be mad and very dissapointed in her? Or is it just me?
Amy
CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
I think I would prob feel the same tbh cos you already have their dresses! Was the baby planned or anything? I suppose anyone else would say it's selfish to be mad about it but I would be for a day or two, then I'd get over it & find a way around it xx
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think you'll find she'll be more like 7months gone by your wedding - and a month makes a big difference in pregnancy size as she must be about 6-8 weeks already! If they've been trying a while I don't think u can really blame her as she must be excited but I can see where u come from in terms of dress... I think as she'll need a bigger one she should pay for it? X
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CommentAuthorsarah
I think what you're feeling is pretty natural, but if you start telling people about it you risk coming off as a bridezilla.The repercussions could be awful if you tell anyone else how mad/disappointed you are. Worse still if your bm heard I'm sure that she would be gutted.
So get it all out here, we don't mind x
CommentAuthorsarah
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Agree with Kelbel about the dress. A maternity infinity dress would be a good compromise and something she could get a lot of wear out of _ I'll pop a link on my wall. x
P.S. Link I found was in blue but there are a lot of sellers that offer different colors.
I can understand feeling a bit annoyed about the dress even if you are happy for her! Hope you can find her a suitable dress xx
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CommentAuthornaughty_nurse88
I think I'm calming down a bit it's just so disheartening when you do all the planning and a glitch happens it's nit the first one as I had problems with the cars, she just had really bad timing as we got burgled yesterday morning and she told me last night!!! Stressed isn't the word!