Mine are not having the same hair style. They may be the bridesmaids but that doesn't mean they can't have their own personality. They each get to choose how they have it. What suits one person doesn't the next and if they have different lengths it wouldn't be possible to get them the same anyway. Where would you stop at trying to make them all the same? Dye them all the same colour, stop them having fringes etc?

If you don't know what to have I would let them choose something that suits them or say I would like it if you all had it up or down but then let them take their own take on how it is done. They may all like the same style but I really wouldn't force things on them.

i was thinking of letting them all have their hair how they want although am gona do the jbms as i want their hair up and off their faces i think that the only stipulation (sp) i have so that everyone can see their faces x

All of my adult Bm's are having a loose sort of grecian side bun (theres pictures in my Bridesmaids album) & my little flower girl is having hers loosely curled because its really long shes 4 and she can almost sit on it lol x

my 2 adult bridesmaids are going to discuss and agree between themselves what they want, and I've told mum of the 2 teens to get them to agree on what they want - so I'm getting them to match one another but not necessarily the other pair. They all want to wear it down anyway and they all have a matching fasciantor to wear in their hair. The flower girl is going to have her hair wavy and she has a gorgeous fascinator on a headband to wear :o)

mine all want theres up in some sort of barrel curls im having mine down and curly xx

My bridesmaids are all having different styles as they all have different lengths. 2 bms are having hairclips with flowers and feathers to match my bouquet and the littlest one has a tiara.

Mine are different. They have different length hair, different thickness and different colours so Im happy for them to choose although they have all put their ideas passed me, bless them.

None of them have choosen to have their hair up thankfully so its just me and my daughter but ours are different too.

I don't think they all need to have the same styles.

i have 3 adult bms and 2 young fg's the 1 bm has a short bob so she is having hers curled, the second bm has long black hair, she is having it curled and dragged to the side, the third bm, has long brown hair, she is having it curled and up, they all have gold tiaras with red jewels in in, the 9 year old fg has very long thick blonde hair she is having in curled and dragged to the side, and having burgundy and ivory flower pins put in where it rolls over at the back, the 3 yr old fg, has thin shoulder length hair, she is having it curled but down and having a burgundy and ivory alice band in it, they all looked lovely on the trial and look nice because they are all so different, very happy with all of them :) x

I'm having 3 Bm's. 1 adult (27) My eldest daughter (9) and my youngest (2). The 2 older ones are having an up do'. Something with a braid maybe. Not exactly sure but it will be up. My little girl is going to be having her hair down. She only 1 at the moment, but has what looks like a hairy helmet on her head already. (It's curly, and grows outwards.). Think i'm going to just put a pretty hairband in hers. x

My youngest daughter is my FG and she won't let you do anything with her hair so it is just getting washed and dried. She has ringlets anyway so it will look cute. My eldest daughter is one of my BMs and am going to have her hair curled and tied up loosely. My MOH is getting her hair done with me and tbh she can choose what she likes as she is not a girly girl and she is already wearing the dress I bought for her, I don't want her to feel too uncomfortable. She will most likely have it tied up in a loose bun with her natural curls hanging slightly at the front. x

im wearing my hair up so i have asked that my bms wear their hair down but they can do what they want with it being down my fg has very fine hair and im leaving hers alone in the style its in now as she looks lovely as she is xxxx