Firstly I'm sorry if this is in the wrong category as I wasn't sure which one to but it in.

My problem is that none of my bridesmaids or my MOH seem to be interested in the wedding at all. I have my best friend as my MOH and then my little sister and H2b's 2 sisters as my bridesmaids. Me and my best friend might only talk once a week and I only see her a few times a year as we are both at uni and living in different cities which is fine, but when we do talk she doesn't even ask how things are going. Same with my bridesmaids, when I see them they don't ask if we've been planning anything or even if I've been looking at dresses for them or anything like that and it's really starting to get to me. I'm the only one who ever brings the wedding up and I know there isn't a lot happening with it at the moment but it would just be nice for someone to at least act like they care about it. If anyone could give me some advice I would really appreciate it. xx

I've been trying not to mention it to be honest as my mum told me the same as yours. My mum has been excited for us but only in little bursts like when we booked the venue or the photographer she was excited for the day and then it just fizzled out. Looking forward to it being closer to the wedding and people getting more involved. x

Thanks millz, I hadn't thought about it like that :) x

Yeah I agree, it's probably to far away. I have seen this before, the nearer it gets the more interested they will get I'm sure x x

Yeah deffo too far away and as you know life happens in between for them too. Mine is 19 months away and I wouldn't expect anyone to get properly excited until 2014 comes around and I know from my own experience that listening to someone bang on about a wedding can get a bit boring no matter how close this person is.

A friend of mine would talk about nothing but her wedding and it used to just remind me about how I was alone and there is that thought too if they are single.

2014 is still a while off... It won't feel it by middle of next yr tho eeek!

It's still a long way off in the distance. Try not to take it personally as hard as it is. I'm sure that nearer the time they'll all be super interested. And like you said, if theres not much going on at the mo then there isn't probably much for them to ask about. If you want to create a bit more interest why don't you suggest you all go and look at dresses together? That will get them in the spirit i'm sure.xx

Thank you all for your advise, after reading threw the comments I figure I'm probably being a little too sensitive about it. I like the idea of them all meeting up as h2b's sisters are in Reading and my sister and friend are from the North so would be nice for them to meet before the wedding. Thanks ladies :) x

I have two bridesmaids, one of which adores weddings and would talk about them all day - she's been a bridesmaid 6 or 7 times and fully relishes the role. My other bridesmaid has more important things going on in her life to worry about my wedding. I think we have to accept that it's our wedding and they may not be excited just yet - I'm sure in the final weeks before the big day they'll pull together for you - and at the times when you really need somebody to talk things through with.

Oh no, don't worry hun, I'm sure when the day gets closer they will all be super excited. Like others have said, people have so much going on in their busy lives that if it's not their wedding they just cannot get excited about it yet. When things start to happen nearer the time they will be excited for you. For now, just enjoy getting your ideas down and booking all the big things that you don't need your BM's and mother for i.e. photographer, DJ/entertainment, cake, decorations, flowers etc.

Then in 3 months time, get the girls together and start the dress shopping process! That should help get them more interested xx

My MOH is getting married in 2014 so when we talk we're concentrating on her wedding as i'm her's too, I'm sure as you get closer to the date they will get more into the wedding xxx

I also had your problem! NON of my bms were interested at all, never seemed to be bothered when i brought something up about the wedding, Were not bothered about meeting up to look at wedding things. It was fustrating as i was really excited and no-one wanted to hear about it.

I have to admit ive had a good go at them about it but recently theyve started taking far more of an interest! Theyve sent me links of jewellery & shoes they like, taken more of an interest in my dress fittings and what will be happening on the day, want to know timings starting to ask me questions and i FINALLY managed to get them all together to go shopping to find their accessories.

Even though it probably doesnt feel that long to you, to them it probably feels yonks away. Im sure as the day gets closed they'll all be dead excited too! Maybe just have a little chat with them and tell them how you feeling?

I had this problem when my wedding was quite far away. Now there's only 3 months to go & it's crazy!! So please don worry, enjoy the peace while you can because things will be busier in a few months (: good luck xx