Oh my goodness.. Why would someone do that ??? And more to the point, who do you think would do that ?? xxx

Tell me about it! I have no idea!!!! And also why does she belive it? Im really upset been crying all day! shes one of my best mates as are our sons but she cant see that. ive tried everyting to get through to her, and shes rang up the flower place to cancel her own flowers!!

Not to be harsh or nasty... But it sounds a bit suspicious to me... If you're that good of friends, then she would've talked to you about it first, she would tell you who it is.. And how has this person set up a 'fake' profile if she claims to actually know who it is ? Fake's are meant to be secret but it sounds like she knows exactly who... And if someone she didn't know did message her a bunch of stuff about you, then surely she should be really confused rather than really angry ??

Has she been ok with you up until now ? It all seems very far fetched, very sudden and very muddled up story wise... At first she claims a 'random' person, but now she refuses to tell you who it is ?? She wouldn't be able to if it was random ? xxx

There's more to it Huni. A good friend doesn't just cancel everything and refuse to talk to you because a random, fake fb account spreads untrue gossip.
She's either a fake friend and not a good one at all - or she's not telling the whole story x

Yeah my maid of honour thought there was more to it but god knows wha!!!

Write it down and send as a message to her on fb - that way she'll read it, if she wont listen to you any other way.
Just explain how upset you are, how much she means to you and how you would like to put right whatever is wrong x

Something simela happened to me, and it was the moh husband stirring.

But sadly it showed her true colours which in a way im glad of.

None of them are coming now.

She said allsorts, hoped I couldn't have kids!! Slagged my hubby2b off posted allsirts of crap on fb, sent messages to other frineds slagging me off!

Was awfull and all because of her husband!

I think he got jellous or something.

Id offered to pay for mist things for them as they had 4 kids and I don't think he liked it.

But lots of funny things happened with get hubby at centre of it, her own bridesmaids pulled out 2 weeks before because of a fall out with him. But she can't see what he's like beloved everything he says over best friends and family.

Id def want to know who ut was tho and know reasons? Is there a jellous friend or anything??

Yikes that sounds awful hun. I have to say that the girl I thought was one of my best friends turned on me when I met my other half. She was jealous because I was a party girl with her until then.... we used to go out 3 times a week and I suppose she felt left out a jealous that I wanted to spend more time with him. Could it be a jealous friend who wanted to be moh? Girls can be very vindictive..... I was justllucky that my other half trusted me enough to know a jealous lie and not believe it.
I know I'm very lucky to have him.
And you have your hubby to be still.... don't let the petty lies ruin your day.....
Xx

I dont for sure,,,she said it was (no profile picture, friends etc) Shes already married so dont know why she would be jealous?

Katt thats AWFUL cant belive some people can be so malicious!!!!!! Your better off without!! Its hard but sometimes it takes something like this to realise someones true colours xxx

Sian it all sounds too far fetched hun to be honest it sounds like theres a deeper issue. Its easy to state a "random" person messaged her off fb may send her and fb message and ask her to copy and paste exactly what was put. I would also ask why she has done this as no REAL friend would believe rumours and as others have said why didnt she speak to you about it first?? It sounds as though something else has happened to make her go to the extremes of cancelling her flowers and her place in the hen do. Does she have any money troubles?? could this be why and shes using the excuse its a random fb person as she may be ashamed to tell you the truth?? xx

I would just send her a message hun saying that if you said any of it then yes you would know but because you havnt and dont know who is stirring things then you have no clue I would also tell her you are deeply upset your friendship meant soo little considering she is quick to believe someone on a fake profile over you. Maybe give her a few days to cool off and come to her senses hun xx

Susan B i agree with you, does she get along with all the other bridesmaids etc? maybe one of them doesnt want her involved so has stirred? its an idea? xxx

I have to agree with the others, does sound incredibly odd and suspicious to me and she can't be a real friend if she's believing some random or protecting them now if she won't tell you who it is. It's too fishy.

Well tbh your lucky that she isnt your BM now, otherwise could have caused no end of trouble on your day! xxx

I agree with the others, there has to be more to it! And being blunt, if she cared about your friendship that much, she would make the effort to talk it through with you!... Another issue, in her defence (possibly!), may be that maybe the stuff that has been said to her is private and important information about her that only a select few people know about... hence why she has reacted so erratically.

It is just so stranger how she has gone about cancelling everything in such a short space of time. Have you got long before your wedding?
I would send her an email/fb explaining exactly how you feel, that you have no idea what is going on, and you would like to discuss what has been said so you can at least 'defend' yourself against her thoughts..
hope this helps, had a close friend who had a very similar problem and this seemed to help resolve it all.
Fingers crossed for you x

That's too bad :( But it's better to find out now before she could do some serious damage.