well as moost of you no our hair and makeup artist canceled on us last minuit so we had to find someone else. we went for our trial last week and today my nan has informed me that my cousin (my bridesmaid) doesnt like how they did here hair :/ i said they could have it how they want as long as both bridesmaids were the same and up as mine is down. the stylist asked them if they liked it and they both agreed that they liked it and the stylist said well i cant do any changes once you both agree so we all left happy... got to my nans and my nan said she didnt like it so im wondering if this has come from her rather than my cousin. (think my nan has an idea in her head that she wants the wedding to be like and doesnt like anything that doesnt fit in to this vision she has, she was the same with my mums wedding!) so anyway she was like k doesnt like the hair that she had done, so i said why has she told you? my nan goes no she went home and told her dad and her dad told me i was like well she was happy with it at the shop, then she said well she just wanted to make you happy! so i kinda flipped at my nan saying 'they chose the hair themselves, they were both happy with it when they left and if she didnt like it she should have said so cuz i cant do alot if they dont say anything to me can i?' next day i see my nan and she has printed a picture of the computer of how she thinks the bridesmaids should have there hair......and its exactly like what im having mine like! grrrrr so annoyed. i really dont mind how they have there hair s long as its not the same as mine, but what am i suposed to do now? x

Have you spoke with your cousin? Sounds like your nan is trying to put her two pennce worth in and is upsetting you in the process. Your cousin could be happy with her hair for all you know your nan could be just trying to cause trouble xx

Susan as long as you like it then it doesnt matter what nan thins, yes you like to keep her happy but you need to feel comfortable on ur day so thats all that matters.

With regards to BM hair like u say if it wanst the length she liked then she wouldnt of liked it but once she ahs her extentions in Im sure she will be fine i was the same when i was BM, Didnt like it at trial but once they put a bit more volume in it I was happy on teh day xx

Poor you :-( By the sounds of it though it seems like your nan is the one with the problem and not your BM. If your BM's issue was with the length then you're right - once her extensions are in then it'll be fine. Don't feel pressured in to having something you don't want, i think you've been very leniant in the first place in saying as long as its an updo then you don't mind! I was BM for my brother and absolutely hated my hair but went along with it coz it was what they wanted! If you don't want them to have their hair down the same as you then put your foot down :-) Good luck x