i am renewing my vows in 2021 and we are treating it like the wedding as when we got married we couldnt afford what we wanted but now we able to afford the wedding of our dreams my daughter lives with her dad 250 miles away and when we got married she natually was there but got all upset when i asked he to be a bridesmaid she was 11 at that point she will b 21 when we renew vows should i get her a bridesmaid dress and just say its a pretty dress or should i re ask to b my bridesmaid
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
You can see how she feels about it, you could get her a very pretty knee length dress though instead of a full length one.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorKathleenO17
She is older now so maybe talk to her and she how feels about it. If she doesn't want to be a bridesmaid maybe suggest that it would mean a lot to you if you could go dress shopping together for her outfit even
CommentAuthorEmily17
I would talk to her definitely. She is older now and will understand more. Then the decision is with her x
Met in 2009
He proposed Jan 2014
Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
