I dunno he said I was being disrespectful to my step mum but I feel he's being disrespectful to my mum. I feel like I don't want any speeches now to save hassle and upset. Aw bless you, hope you get sorted and you can start to enjoy your count down. You are having such a big wedding aren't you xx

Unfortunately Flossie, my step mum has issues of her own with my mum and she would rather she wasn't mentioned at all. We don't talk about my mum in front of her. I've cried for 2 days about it all. Xx

I'm getting married 22nd July

Everything I have left to do;

Order Wedding Rings,
Order Bridemaids Dresses
Book Hen Party
Last Dress Fitting
Trial Hair Day
Trial Make Up Day
Book Florist.

I'm so angry at my Maid Of Honour, I can not be dealing with all the stress right now, she never tells me when she is free, she has not helped me at all, she may not be coming to my Hen Party, she isn't staying with the night before my wedding and all that a side and forgiven, what I am furious with is she is not coming to the reception or after party!
I have such a crappy Made Of Honour :(

I'm so excited for my wedding though, it can not come soon enough! xx

She doesn't sound like much of a MOH to me.

Hey Ladies,

Michelle, I am sure you are delighted now that your mum etc are getting involved and taking more of an interest, and a big help with the ££ too, happy days!

Ashleigh, that certainly is not a MOH! get a replacement stat! if i was asked to be someone's MOH i would be doing everything I could to help out and support the bride, I just don't get how some people can be so selfish.

LeanneF, Im sure your head is away , people have a habit of just putting more stress on top of everything don't they?

Ashleigh, it sounds as though she wants the status but isn't willing to commit. Why on earth would somebody agree to be a MOH if they are not even bothering to go to the reception?! Madness!

Leanne - so sorry to hear that. No wonder you're upset. It seems really insensitive not to mention your real mum on your wedding dayy. I can understand why you feel the way you do. I hope you are able to get it sorted. Sending hugs ((()) xx

Kayleigh - no, I've not got a change of shoes. I want to try and stay in my shoes for as long though. Probably end up bare footed by the end of the evening.

Sorry, MrsMW2B great news that you have seen the marquee guy now, hope the quote is good for you.

Lindsey and Flossie - won't be long until they both drop into weeks, then it gets scary :)

Now I am nervous - bridal shop just telephoned to say my dress has arrived....!!!!!! So nervous about seeing it again, also disappointed that I've not lost as much weight as I thought. Not a happy bunny after seeing some of the hen party photos!!!

Yay exciting Lindsey!!! You will be absolutely fine xxx

Emm - I now share your makeup concerns!!! I usually wear E$t££ L@uder Double Wear foundation, which lasts all day - it's quite heavy, but gives good coverage. When I had my trial, the MUA used B0bb1 Br0wn Luminous foundation. I've purchased a bottle of it so I can touch up throughtout the day. However, I used it today and cant believe that it's not lasted the whole day and I look like I've now got no make up and no coverage. It's also made my skin greasier than normal...

Oh and Ashleigh, I agree your MOH doesn't sound like a very good friend never mind MOH! Does she have a valid excuse?!

Aahh Chrissy so exciting! Are you feeling stressed? Is everything going well?

I'm surprised at how my dad is being as its so totally out of character, I think he's very much stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Xx

Chrissy - just had a peek at your profile. I'm in Seaford so not a million miles from you!! Yes, Arundel is really lovely. I've been to the Bl@ck R@bbit - had a failed internet date there before I met my OH!!! Arundel is quite special to us as we had quite a few dates there when we first met - it was meant to be halfway between his then home in Havant, but think I was conned a bit there!

Wow - 12 days to go - exciting. Where are you getting married? Sorry if you've said elsewhere.

Emm, no it makes complete sense. I'm now stressing its not going to last the whole day and my skin will look really porous - it's not brilliant to start off with in all honesty. Dry skin around the eyes and unattractive dark circles to boot!

I would suggest you book in another trial or maybe try another MUA and see if you're happier after that? xx

Emm I thought you look lovely on your trial but if you're not happy then maybe speak to the MUA and see if they can offer a solution.

MrsW I'm sorry to hear your mum is blowing hot and cold on the wedding. I was so pleased to hear they were getting excited and then kept reading and got so annoyed. Hopefully now she's heard the whole story about what has been said she will realise that its your sister who is out of order.

Chrissy that was so hard for me too the last few days not eating cake after the last fitting. Just wait til afterwards and you can have that cake that stares at you in the run up.

Sorry Leanne to hear about your dad, I hope he realises how important your mum is to you as well as acknowledging your step mums role in bringing you up.

Hope things get less stressful Danielle.

And LadyC, sorry to hear about your dad but massive congratulations on baby news.

Phew! I think that's everyone! X

Thanks Kirsty x

OMG! My ticker has gone down to weeks!!! Eeeek!

Our RSVPs have gone a little quiet. The people that nagged and nagged about us sending them haven't replied which I find annoying!

I know OHs family have an event that weekend and our renting a cottage locally but still haven't sent the RSVPs back. The deadline is 31st May so by the 20th I think I'll start chasing!

We've got all of ours back. Just waiting on the evening guests now, which are really slow to come back.

I know the feeling lol

We've got all day guests back but a few evening guests haven't rsvp yet. Just said said to OH that if they come they do, if not then more buffet food for everyone else

I would look in D3bs or M&5. It may be that your bridal store stocks bras anyway - I know mine does? Alternatively you could get cups sewn into the dress, which is what I'm doing xx

Yep - my bridal shop supplied the cups :-)

I'm not having anything for the bust as its being pinned around me but I am having a half bodice and I'm currently torn between tights or stockings - think stockings will be easier to use the toilet though lol!!