Had a fab day on Saturday for my hen. Got into town just before 12pm. We had our own section of R€v0lut10ns to ourselves. The cocktail making was awesome. We took it in turns to make them, can't believe how many we were allowed to make! Afterwards we went back to our reserved seating area and had a couple of bottles of pr0©€cc0 and some food. The food was lovely, mini burgers, pizza, chicken, little cones with scampi and sweet pot fries. We left about 2:45 to make our way to the golf. That was a lot of fun. We had teams of 3 and I won in my team :) When we finished the golf we all went to C0$t@ for coffee and to kill some time. We headed to the tapas restaurant for 7pm stopping in a bar on the way for more cocktails. Once in the tapas restaurant the food was lovely as always and the service really good. OH came and picked my mum up at about 11pm and the rest of us went to a club as the owner let us in for free. I don't do clubs but it was a laugh. Phoned OH up at 2:30am to come and pick us up. He didn't mind too much lol. Yesterday was a lovely day. OH Niece and Sister are staying so we went on a pub crawl along the river. Having a very chilled day today before they go home back to Kendal.

Hi everyone!! Just popping on quickly whilst waiting on my husband - eeeeekkkkk lol to wake so we can go down for breakfast. We are still in the honeymoon suite and it's fab. Well I definitely had the best day of my life!! It's so true that it flies by so enjoy every second. I'll pop some pics on my album. Can't wait for honeymoon tomorrow!!!

Congratulations Danielle can't wait to hear all about it. Have a fab honeymoon x

Beautiful Danielle, you looked stunning x

Congratulations Danielle! xx

Got quite a few bits sorted over the weekend.
Groomsmen presents
Groom's present
Finances
Timings for the day
Stag do
And most importantly, The Hen Party!!

Feel a bit better about that :)

Aw Danielle and Mrs M you both look so beautiful. So glad you's had the best day xxx

Em your flower girl looks lovely.

Faye that is a shame about the invites, I would have been fuming too but hopefully something you can laugh about in the future.

My best friend is home form NZ today. We are off on her hen on weds to Ibiza, can't wait then her wedding is the 18th June lots to do as she hasn't been home for 2 years, so final wedding prep to be done. I am having an early hen party whilst she is home aswell as she won't be back until 2 days before our wedding. Its going to be a very exciting month. xxx

Danielle you look lovely x

Just ordered my wedding perfume

Gone with Ch@n3l C0c0 M@d3m0is3ll3. Ordered it from J0hn L3w1s as I had £30 worth of vouchers to use up that have just been sat in my purse for about a year!! So got 50ml for £38 :-)

Thanks everyone, quite sad we're back to normal now, kids at school and Hubby back to work. It's given me time to sort things out and we're off on holiday Monday so not long to wait. Popped our flowers on our nans grave this morning and took the hoop back to the dress shop.

That perfume is lovely flossie my sister had it on and could smell her all day! Xx

Had a day from hell today so just need to rant!!

So not had the best weekend due to one thing and another and I'm feeling really stressed, anxious and extremely emotional.
I was off ishwith OH last night as I'm feeling a little under appreciated and I feel that at the minute I'm just a mum, cleaner, lover (TMI) and here as a make do!! I have my insecurities at the mo but I was far too emotional to talk to him about them so text him this morning and we got it off our chests and all is well.

Today, he writes on FB about meeting for his stag do in the city at 12pm for food then for drinks.

A girl they did T0ugh mudd3r with piped up that she was gonna join them. Keeping in mind she's one of the reasons I'm a bit on edge at the minute as discussed with OH this morning. A pretty physically fit young girl who is always liking, sharing and commenting on his FB posts, I feel a bit jealous/threatened by her. Wether you agree or disagree is irrelevant that's how I feel lol……
Why would a girl invite herself on a stag do claiming she's ‘one of the lads’?? She's only ever met him once!!

I was fuming…. I let OH know my feelings and I've told him, either he tells her unfortunately she's not invited or I do!!

I feel so p1553d off by it!! I wish I could just chill out but I can't!!

Sorry for the rant xx

I feel like I'm over reacting a bit but a stag do is for OH and his long term good friends not some girl who thinks she can just join in cos she met him at the weekend!!

I'm so peed off right now I could scream!!

If I find out she has gone without my knowing.... I will be fuming!!!!

OH and I were on FT earlier and I burst into tears.... He has assured me she won't be there. I trust his word

If it gets brought up again on FB, I will drop her a line and just tell her I thinks she's out of order and that OH and his best man invited close friends and long term male friends, not a random girl who thinks she's one if the lads!

Normally a full house clean calms me when I'm feeling like this but unfortunately it hasn't today lol!

I would feel the same Emm. Hope you're ok. Sending you hugs xx

Just noticed my ticker has gone down to 4 months :)

Emma I would be the exact same as you and that girl should know better but she's maybe one of those girls! I hate girls who think they can interfere in something that's nothing to do with them, as she prob knows she's annoying you as she would feel the same of the shoe was on the other foot! I believe your other half wouldn't allow her there but he probs doesn't take it serious and just thinks this girl is kidding when infact she would prob show up given the opportunity! A stag is defo for the groom and his nearest and dearest, your defo not over reacting and if it was me I would no doubt send a message cause I couldn't help myself lol and id be telling oh to get her removed! He will see it like she's done nothing wrong but he doesn't know her and why upset his wife to be when a simple one click to unfriend will make it all better xx

Thanks you Susan :)

Em I would feel a bit annoyed about this too. Atleast oh realises where you are coming from and the girl won't be going. x

I'm still wound up and high as a kite lol!! It seems to be the norm at the minute. I'm like a ticking time bomb and could just explode at the slightest thing.....

I'm normally so calm and laid back but for some reason I'm constantly on edge!

I'm hoping it's just wedding nerves and afterwards i will settle. Yesterday hasn't helped one bit!

Sorry to hear you're having a tough time Em - I totally agree and would also be fuming if a girl had said she would join the stag do and I think you would be well within your rights to send a message. Hope you feel better soon. x

Thank you Leanne

I also hope you have a fantastic time in Ibiza :) x

Oh Nicola, good luck for the big day, I'm wishing you all the best now, as I pop in and out of this forum maybe once or twice a week and will prob miss all the build up :D xx

Just paid the balance for the order of service, table names, table plan and place cards. All we have left to pay now is my hair and makeup. Good job really as the savings have gone from 8000 down to 250! Another 600 will be going in next week on pay day though so not too bad. Hate seeing the savings disappear :(

It's depressing lol

Aw Mrs Maher (no longer to be) and Danielle - you both look amazing. So glad you both had lovely days :-) xx

Nicola - not long for you now :-)

I know Lindsey - last day at work tomorrow and then final countdown and preparations. Just keep thinking that this time next week it will all be over so just trying to enjoy this week as much as possible.

Don't blame you Lindsey, I don't understand these girls that this it's ok to do these things with someone else's man x