Tell me about it lol

LeanneF265. There's a bit of a story behind the dress. I did have one off the peg bit small for me but only needed to lose about 8lb to fit however I've had a car accident and broke my back and I'm prerry immobile for goodness knows how long. So I spoke to the wedding shop as my concern was if while in recovery i put on a stone that's more weight to loose and depending on recovery exercise may be limited so I've decided to go for another dress that can be made bigger if required, the dress I chose couldn't have been made bigger. Additionally it's a really heavy dress and when I went for a fitting I couldn't wear it as it caused me so much pain ... In short no I've not got a dress. BM are chosen but not paid for yet xx

Loving the champagne flutes Becci, what a great idea for bm gift! May have to pinch that one from you, hehe!!

Oh no Mrs B, thats terrible. Prob best to wait to see how you recover. I was just going to suggest something with not many layers. Our dresses were so pretty but they had lots of layers and were quite thick, we were so hot. The bride herself was so stressed the morning of the wedding with the heat, I would say have lots of air conditioning and fans around. Other than that it was such a beautiful day. Hope you are resting up. xx

Welcome future mrs b. your wedding sounds lovely, we are thinking on Cyprus for our honeymoon if we get on one. Sorry to hear about your accident.

Leanne we have a little boy too. He was 2 in September. Looking forward to trying again after the wedding lol

Glass is lovely becci!

I'm buying the girls jewellery but going to hold off until we've decided on there hair before I buy anything as certain necklaces might go better with hair up and earrings too! also on what way they will wear there dresses too! There multiway so might not need a big necklace and might be better with statement earrings I'll shop around for ideas though xx

Ouch Mrs b! Thoracic is the worst that's where my pain is worst but sla affects my hips and lower back too.

My was just a relatively straight forward crash. My car had a laser on the front that activates the brake if something passes in front of it .. The car thought it saw something so performed an emergency stop when I was doing 60mph as I tried to stop the car being a tit a big 4x4 hit me at about 50 so one doctor thinks it's just normal whiplash that could last two years another thinks I have a trapped nerve because my limbs go numb and pins and needley quite often.. Sounds like a nasty crash you were in bless you! Have you had to have surgery?

Thanks Danielles0709 ...
Isn't it hard to keep up with posts. It's so easy to miss posts x

I typed a long post but it seems to have gone Becci93 but in a nutshell. Hospital can't make their mind up. according to one consultant They should operate other wants to leave me to heal and review in December. at moment I'm being left to heal ...they are concerned my compression is worsening. I'm worried I'm gonna be in pain long term. I'm getting pins and needles and numbness in my hands so I'm seeing dr next week as I think I need an MRI to look at if it's a trapped nerve or a disc. I have pain in my back and hips too, good days and bad days
Your accident must have been awful ... You car caused it. How are you day to day?? Sorry to take the topic off weddings xx

Yeah in at the good and bad days now too.. How long ago was your accident?

Yeah I made the German car company I'm the press at the moment take it in for accident investigation and they claimed it was fine even though I'd taken in to 3 different garages on 7 different occasions for a braking fault yet they still say the car was fine .. Oh is a mechanic and he has diagnostic proving my car caused the crash but the insurance are blaming the third party for failing to maintain safe stopping distance. Luckily it was a company car so I just refused to get back in it point blank. Some poor soul has been given it after they know what it did to me. Could have been a totally different story of a lorry had hit me

That's awful Becci93. The accident is hard enough and the recovery without dealing with insurances and manufacturers trying to get out of paying up ... My H2B works for said company

The only v0lkswag0n dealer out of the ones I took the heap of rubbish to that I had any respect for was Northampton the master tech there knew the golf had an issue he just wasn't sure what or how to mend it

I burst into tears when oh was driving the other day .. He knew it had hit me hard but didn't realise it had hit me quite that hard

Wow... Are you able to work? How long ago was it? Mine was only 3 weeks ago x

Mine was 3 months on Wednesday

What do you do? If you don't mind me asking. My work involves driving in and out of office working in community desk work and I'm already worried they're going to make me go back to work before I'm ready.. It's already playing on my mind x

That's ridiculous Kirsty ... I hate driving because of idiots like that ..

I'm a regional damage and Maintainence manager for a global car hire firm .. Did 27000 miles last year as a quick guide lol

Wow .. So you do a lot of miles. That makes it worse ... Bless you xx

So your little boy will be almost 4 when use get married? You could sneak another one in before the wedding lol!! Our wee man will be 2 and 8 months when we get married and I'm hoping it happens quickly as I'm worried about a big gap. I'd ideally have liked a smaller gap if it weren't for the wedding!!

Leanne that's funny that your LO is telling people that lol!!

So sorry to hear what you are going through ladies. Driving is a scary business!

Thanks for the seller info Becci.

I don't know too much about nissi inky lots of ladies love it but I'm not sure if it's one of the hotels that only has 1wedding a day ... Either way I'm sure you'll pick so where amazing for your honeymoon Danielle xx

Yea we will Leanne but gonna try but not try and enjoy married life and hope that it happens!! We tried for a year for LO, had a couple of losses before that so don't want to put too much pressure on it

Yeah thats a good idea, try not to get stressed with it. Jack was a surprise so I am not sure how it will go for us either, just have to go with the flow.

We haven't booked our honeymoon yet, we are between places, its difficult cause we are going in Jan. x

Haha Becci x