At thus rate I'll need spanx lol

Haha same here. The tightest ones going lol x

I'm the same Danielle. Feel like the whole town will be invited lol. Can't decide on a select few.

Sil supposed to be sorting/ helping me sort mine but still don't know what to do x

I've thought this too.

There's a few girls I get on with at LO nursery that are a good laugh and they'd only be invited to the evening do.

It's hard making all these decisions lol

Yes good point. I'll have to talk to sil as she was meant to be looking in to things as it was driving me crazy lol

Haha that made me laugh Kirsty but it's a fair point lol x

My dress is too low as well and the bridal shop have already said they need to put chicken fillets in my dress for the day because my boobs are so damn small I look like a 10 year old!!!

My bridesmaid has text saying that it's a comment made by one of the other bridesmaids in the changing room on Saturday and is weight related. She said she doesn't think she meant it to be mean but it made her feel really uncomfortable and she doesn't want to put herself through that again. The culprit brkdesmaid is upset that my attempting drop out bridesmaid doesn't want to do it anymore so I'm hoping I can talk her back into it and make her feel comfortable again! She's gorgeous and her curves are amazing she looks fantastic in the dress too.

She said she didn't want to tell me because she was scared id just axe culprit bridesmaid because I've already said that I want her there more than culprit and she didn't want to cause anymore problems ...

I've promised her I won't do that but uoset bm is at work at the moment and it was upsetting her discussing it so I've told her to text me or ring me after work ... I'm determined to work through this!

I hope it works out for you Becci. It can be difficult when people are conscious about their bodies and a small comment can be very upsetting.

We are nearly there with my hen do. I said I wanted a spa day and (after a little push) we think we are going to Oxford in a hotel. We found a package for full use of spa facilities, a 60 min treatment, lunch, 3 course dinner, pre dinner cocktails and canapés, girls night in dad's and nibbles and B&B for £139 each which I think is an amazing price for all that! Normally it's that to get into a spa and get one treatment never mind all the food and hotel stay. X

You could invite them Danielle. They can always say no.

I'm going to do a meal for my mum and mil I think as both not in to night clubs etc

Danielle, I am having a separate hen evening at my parents house for my step mum, MIL, aunties etc x

I've spoken to her and managed to talk her back in and said we'll go for a night out all of us next month and make sure she doesn't feel uncomfortable again but if not she's back in - relieved is not the word!

I didn't even think of the implications of having bridesmaids that don't really know each other that well but I'm glad it's sorted now and everyone's happy!

My mum died when I was little, so I am quite close to my aunts as well as my step mum but my hen weekend will not at all be their thing or MIL lol so my step mum is throwing me a little hen party at our family home so it won't cost much and means bridesmaids etc aren't having to fork out for two. Its just whatever works for you I guess hun.

Glad you managed to work it out Becci.

Do either of you girls have wedding insurance? I have asked before about it but I just can't make up my mind about it.

I've not got wedding insurance x

Thats a great deal for all that Kirsty! Bet you can't wait!

Once the bridesmaids dresses are sorted the hen/stag do preparation is the next thing on our list I think, that plus the rings.

I can't believe we're nearly into october! 3 more months and then we'll all be into our year of getting married eek. Exciting but scary making sure everythings sorted and prepared in time for it! Xx

Mrs wade its flying way to fast! I cant believe I will be 30 soon! lol

I have wedding insurance, most policy's cover everything you've booked before taking the policy as long as its not longer than 2 years before you actually get married then its covered, we booked our venue in January and I didn't take insurance until march but its all covered xx

I made sure I more than covered everything im sure its 25k of cover im insured upto xx

I went on m0n3y sup3rmark3t and they have quite a few good deals, I think I am going to take it out today :) x

I agree better safe than sorry, I hope none of us need to use it but its a good thing to have on the off chance something goes wrong xx

Flossie where did you get the wine glasses from for your bridesmaids x

Thank you x

Must have a look I'm planning on getting glitter glasses too

Can't believe you've only got 8 months to go Flossie. It's gone so fast x

Yes all the time! :) x

I can't wait til we are counting down double figures instead of triple. This year has gone so fast x

Mine is 330 today - scary! x